"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not so sure I like the sound of this...

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I went out for some drinks last night on my own, kinda hoping I'd run into this one girl whom I haven't seen in a few months. She wasn't there, but this one ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108175 ) was, with a couple of her friends. Didn't even notice because it was so crowded. Originally, I had every intention of just not making contact with her anymore, but she came over and started talking to me. A lot of touching on her part (rubbing my back, rubbing her t1ts into me whenever she could, feeling how big my arms are, blah blah ...), but I just kinda ignored it because she was way more drunk that I ever bothered to get last night. I did eventually go over and chat with them.

She was talking to some dude, and her one friend said something to me about how she's becoming a lesbian for a while because she broke up with her boyfriend. The other girl with them is 100% homo. Then she said the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

"I'd be with you, but you sorta belong to (her name here)."

What the **** is that supposed to mean? Is this some sort of control bullsh1t?

Then the girl who said this tabbed out, paying for at least two of them. I asked if they weren't drinking anymore, to which she replied, "You're buying our drinks now.". I just smiled and bought myself a drink.

The girl from the story in the link began acting really weird around then. I don't know if it was from the drinking, being depressed about something, or being tired, but they all left.

After all the bumping and grinding earlier, all I got was a ****ing hug as she left, telling me to call her "... but not saturday. A friend (her ex, apparently, whom she still has some hang up about, despite him dumping her two years ago for some big chick... shes been single ever since) is coming into town tomorrow. Call me sunday."

I might... I dunno.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He musta not wanted to see her, because she just texted me to go see a movie. Interesting...
 

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Hate to break it to you but it sounds like this chick considers you to be her lap dog (which her friend more or less confirmed with the 'you belong to her' comment). You're just supposed to keep her entertained by buying her drinks and taking her to the movies until the other guy makes time for her.
 
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