"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Im not so convinced of this "your life gets better after your 30s"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A good question is how much money they spent on him?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A lot of girls play these "games" and when the man fools her and get what he wanted she's like "I guess he played me" and you'll get more respect than someone paying for that garbage. The more advanced girls get your money and you get nothing.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Bro I'm not advocating SA GAME but if you read the thread you see how those guys do it, you don't shyt where you eat.
Clearly you did not read the thread
No way.
First, in those 9 months I earned $200,000 ($22,222 per month).
Second, I spent about $10,000 on (about 20-25) photo shoot dates, but they are tax deductible so it cost $6666.66 ($296 per shoot), or about $740 per month (3.33 percent of my income). Best money I ever spent. I usually spend $400 a week on weed.
Just to keep my models honest, I intentionally pay so low that no hooker would ever accept that little (one hour in VIP costs twice as much as a photo shoot).
Note that a wife costs about 83% of your income.
If there is any man here who wouldn't spend 3 percent of his income to have the girl of his dreams, raise your hand.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What I got was priceless. The best sex I ever had with the most beautiful girl I ever saw, all while fulfilling her dream of being a model, and being showered with true love. And it turns out she might even be rich enough that I can retire young.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That would be a great ending.
I might be old enough to be her dad, but I realized that these days it takes two dads to raise a beauty.
Truth be told, if you are old enough to be her dad, you better handle yourself in a way that her dad would approve of.
I call that a bargain, the best I ever had.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Funny how you talk about photoshoots
what about
Dinner dates at expensive restaurants
trips overseas (unless you just keep it domestic)
shopping sprees (shoes,dresses, thongs for those photo shoots)
Hotel rooms for fun tryst
Allowance money (a topic neil willl never address and deflect from)
now that 6 grand is easily 20 Grand @bigneil
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.