"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Im not so convinced of this "your life gets better after your 30s"
- Thread starter Who Dares Win
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A good question is how much money they spent on him?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A lot of girls play these "games" and when the man fools her and get what he wanted she's like "I guess he played me" and you'll get more respect than someone paying for that garbage. The more advanced girls get your money and you get nothing.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Bro I'm not advocating SA GAME but if you read the thread you see how those guys do it, you don't shyt where you eat.
Clearly you did not read the thread
No way.
First, in those 9 months I earned $200,000 ($22,222 per month).
Second, I spent about $10,000 on (about 20-25) photo shoot dates, but they are tax deductible so it cost $6666.66 ($296 per shoot), or about $740 per month (3.33 percent of my income). Best money I ever spent. I usually spend $400 a week on weed.
Just to keep my models honest, I intentionally pay so low that no hooker would ever accept that little (one hour in VIP costs twice as much as a photo shoot).
Note that a wife costs about 83% of your income.
If there is any man here who wouldn't spend 3 percent of his income to have the girl of his dreams, raise your hand.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What I got was priceless. The best sex I ever had with the most beautiful girl I ever saw, all while fulfilling her dream of being a model, and being showered with true love. And it turns out she might even be rich enough that I can retire young.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That would be a great ending.
I might be old enough to be her dad, but I realized that these days it takes two dads to raise a beauty.
Truth be told, if you are old enough to be her dad, you better handle yourself in a way that her dad would approve of.
I call that a bargain, the best I ever had.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Funny how you talk about photoshoots
what about
Dinner dates at expensive restaurants
trips overseas (unless you just keep it domestic)
shopping sprees (shoes,dresses, thongs for those photo shoots)
Hotel rooms for fun tryst
Allowance money (a topic neil willl never address and deflect from)
now that 6 grand is easily 20 Grand @bigneil
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.