BongDuy
Master Don Juan
Have you guys ever tried to make a move, maybe try something a little "fast" and the girl says " im no slut" or " im not that easy"? What would you guys say?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"im not no slut"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if they say that, i would just put my arm around them and start tickling them and say "i'm not looking at you like a slut" and continue rubbing their arm and hands and massage their shoulders and they will ease up, trust me!BongDuy said:
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I would reply:-
1) "Which is exactly why I want to spend time with you, cos you're different"
or....
2) "Well, I don't believe any girl is a slut. That is just a word that society puts on girls who are sexually uninhibited and who like to have a good time. And anyway, I don't judge women. I treat women as free-willed, free-thinking individuals. You can do what you like when you're with me and I promise I won't judge you or think of you badly".
1) "Which is exactly why I want to spend time with you, cos you're different"
or....
2) "Well, I don't believe any girl is a slut. That is just a word that society puts on girls who are sexually uninhibited and who like to have a good time. And anyway, I don't judge women. I treat women as free-willed, free-thinking individuals. You can do what you like when you're with me and I promise I won't judge you or think of you badly".
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
You'd be a lot more fun if you were.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
ahh thanks much guys. lovin the responses
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I said this a while ago on here and here it is again:
Her: I'm not that easy.
You: I'm not that easy either. In fact, I'm a little hard.
Her: I'm not that easy.
You: I'm not that easy either. In fact, I'm a little hard.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
did you make a move on that one girl from your other post?
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
"
- comic_relief
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
" - comic_relief
I agree. Most of the time when a woman talks, just let it go in one ear and out the other. At least that works for me. Don't pay attention to a womans mouth, pay attention to their actions and body language. Women lie bad out their mouth, but their body never does.909pua said:
i usually just laugh and say "okay okay thats cool" with a smile and try again a little later just doing things like putting my arm around her rubbing shoulders etc
you gotta ease into it and be smooth, and then she won't feel like a slut.
you gotta ease into it and be smooth, and then she won't feel like a slut.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
ahh im not sure which girl, but probably not. this came into my head because im suppose to hang out with this girl and we're suppose to go drinking, so maybe we may get tipsy and i could make a move. i could imagine her saying " im not that easy though "comic_relief said:did you make a move on that one girl from your other post?
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
- comic_relief
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
well it made sense at the time. :box: