BongDuy
Master Don Juan
Have you guys ever tried to make a move, maybe try something a little "fast" and the girl says " im no slut" or " im not that easy"? What would you guys say?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"im not no slut"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
if they say that, i would just put my arm around them and start tickling them and say "i'm not looking at you like a slut" and continue rubbing their arm and hands and massage their shoulders and they will ease up, trust me!BongDuy said:
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I would reply:-
1) "Which is exactly why I want to spend time with you, cos you're different"
or....
2) "Well, I don't believe any girl is a slut. That is just a word that society puts on girls who are sexually uninhibited and who like to have a good time. And anyway, I don't judge women. I treat women as free-willed, free-thinking individuals. You can do what you like when you're with me and I promise I won't judge you or think of you badly".
1) "Which is exactly why I want to spend time with you, cos you're different"
or....
2) "Well, I don't believe any girl is a slut. That is just a word that society puts on girls who are sexually uninhibited and who like to have a good time. And anyway, I don't judge women. I treat women as free-willed, free-thinking individuals. You can do what you like when you're with me and I promise I won't judge you or think of you badly".
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
You'd be a lot more fun if you were.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
ahh thanks much guys. lovin the responses
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I said this a while ago on here and here it is again:
Her: I'm not that easy.
You: I'm not that easy either. In fact, I'm a little hard.
Her: I'm not that easy.
You: I'm not that easy either. In fact, I'm a little hard.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
did you make a move on that one girl from your other post?
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
"
- comic_relief
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
" - comic_relief
I agree. Most of the time when a woman talks, just let it go in one ear and out the other. At least that works for me. Don't pay attention to a womans mouth, pay attention to their actions and body language. Women lie bad out their mouth, but their body never does.909pua said:
i usually just laugh and say "okay okay thats cool" with a smile and try again a little later just doing things like putting my arm around her rubbing shoulders etc
you gotta ease into it and be smooth, and then she won't feel like a slut.
you gotta ease into it and be smooth, and then she won't feel like a slut.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
ahh im not sure which girl, but probably not. this came into my head because im suppose to hang out with this girl and we're suppose to go drinking, so maybe we may get tipsy and i could make a move. i could imagine her saying " im not that easy though "comic_relief said:did you make a move on that one girl from your other post?
Her: "I'm no slut"
Me: "I never said you were, but I am
- comic_relief
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
well it made sense at the time. :box: