“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm not like the other girls

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So I tried to kiss the girl. I could hug her, hold her hand, she gave me kisses on the cheeks before, I held hand on her knee and caressed her leg but when I tried to kiss her she said "I'm not like the other girls" (yeah sure) and did not allow me to kiss her. I tried few times. Later we cuddled and slept together but nothing more.

I wonder if there are good counters to her saying such thing.
 

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So I tried to kiss the girls (I could hug her, hold her hand, she gave me kisses on the cheeks before). She said "I'm not like the other girls" and did not allow me to kiss her. I tried few times. Later we cuddled and slept together but nothing more.

I wonder if there are good counters to her saying such thing.
Man, the "I'm not like the other girls" is a cop out, there's no real meaning to that phrase.
 

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So I tried to kiss the girl. I could hug her, hold her hand, she gave me kisses on the cheeks before, I held hand on her knee and caressed her leg but when I tried to kiss her she said "I'm not like the other girls" (yeah sure) and did not allow me to kiss her. I tried few times. Later we cuddled and slept together but nothing more.

I wonder if there are good counters to her saying such thing.
Welcome to the FZ.
 

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The only good counter here is not letting it visibly bother you. Maybe give her another date/chance but if she won't let you kiss her then she's either just not interested or is going to be way too much work.
 

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So I tried to kiss the girl. I could hug her, hold her hand, she gave me kisses on the cheeks before, I held hand on her knee and caressed her leg but when I tried to kiss her she said "I'm not like the other girls" (yeah sure) and did not allow me to kiss her. I tried few times. Later we cuddled and slept together but nothing more.

I wonder if there are good counters to her saying such thing.
Now you say "slept together."

Is that shared a bed nothing happened sleep? Or is this "sechs" slept together?

If it is the second, you may want to remind her " you are just like the other girls."
 

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Nah, go find more plates.
 

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Typical ASD line... Probably needed more comfort building for the lay.
 

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"I'm not like the other girls".

I would put this in the same circular file cabinet along with "I dont do hookups", "I dont fvck on the first date" and "I'm not one of those crazy chicks".

All lies. They will all do hookups, fvck on the first date and are all crazy to some extent. The key is they may not fvck on the first date unless its with the right guy/game and will be crazy under the right game/wrong guy.

So they are in fact like other girls when they say "I am not like other girls".

As a general rule, when a chick goes out of her way to stress that she is or isnt something in particular, take it to the bank that she is. She isnt trying to talk me into believing her, rather still trying to convince herself and I am just the available audience.
 

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"I'm not like the other girls" = I'm a frigid prude and I think that's something to be proud of

usually uttered by teenagers who think that for whatever reason every girl except them is a slut, and that they should set themselves apart by limboing under the bar (isn't a girl refusing to suck your d!ck exactly what you want in a woman?)

that's all assuming that she's telling the truth and not just lying through her teeth out of low interest (trying to make an excuse not to do anything with you because she doesn't like you) or to manipulate you (god digger/beta bux, hoe into a housewife, etc.)

either way, it's not a good thing. get rid of her unless she relents
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I wonder if men are as predictable and generic... Probably
yes. many men are just as dumb and lame as most women are. that's why OLD is so easy in some places, women set the bar at rock bottom because every guy they meet has no social skills
 

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Hahahaha. This just proves you know nothing. What are you even on here?
Really? How many men do you date?

I've explained how I found SS and why I'm here before. You can find the info if you look around. No need to repeat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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I have a high opinion of men, I enjoy the company of men a great deal & am very comfortable with men.

I didn't actually express an opinion, rather an observation. Men are quite predictable in dating scenarios. So are women to a great degree, which is why this site is generally worthwhile. It teaches men to understand common occurrences in female behavior.

Not sure how that is an indictment of any sort.

Humans are predictable to a great degree...how is that a surprise? :)
 
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