"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm not into drinking. What can I do?

KingBeef

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I'm not into drinking due to personal beliefs. I believe it poisons the mind and body. It's bad for your liver. Most broken homes comes from a result of alcoholism. It makes your mind unclear. Drunk drivers are self destructive to drivers around them, etc...

This is not a thread bashing people who drink alcohol, but I'm wondering if there are any people here who has had success with women without having the need to drink alcohol socially with them? I can't go to bars because I would look out of place. Where can I meet women socially in my circumstance?
I actually tried this in my mid twenties for about 6 months while I was in my peak physical condition and I'm thinking of trying it again until late June, just abstaining from alcohol.

You can drink at bars and not drink alcohol.... Oj, cranberry, pineapple, sprite, a mix of the two, tonic or coke.... some bartenders give away those drinks for free, others will charge you 2-3 dollars.... All they care is the tip, slip them a couple of dollars, they'll appreciate it. Just use lines like, "I just want to get started, I've been drinking, I need a break in between or what comes naturally to you or just honesty". At the end of the night for them is their tips that matters. No stigma involved, girls can't tell if you have a mixed drink in your hand or just juice... They should just care about you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RangerMIke

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I only drink red wine with dinner, and never drink at parties, I like to keep my head clear. I have a half a bottle of vodka in my house, but that is for guests, I never drink at home. When I'm at parties I drink tonic water or coke, that is all. You will do much better hitting on chicks when sober.
 
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