I'm not into drinking. What can I do?

[SeymourCake]

I'm not into drinking due to personal beliefs. I believe it poisons the mind and body. It's bad for your liver. Most broken homes comes from a result of alcoholism. It makes your mind unclear. Drunk drivers are self destructive to drivers around them, etc...

This is not a thread bashing people who drink alcohol, but I'm wondering if there are any people here who has had success with women without having the need to drink alcohol socially with them? I can't go to bars because I would look out of place. Where can I meet women socially in my circumstance?

 

[wifehunter]

Moderation...try it.

 

[derricklerrick]

Moderation...try it.

lol........

I'm a similar person myself and have never touched alcohol or drugs and hopefully never will. Looking forward to replies of other members.

 

[Skyline]

Alcoholism is the result of drinking irresponsibly. Same with drunk driving and getting roofied at a party.

But if you're still set on not ever drinking then just light a joint. A lot of people, especially the bad babes, love to smoke.

 

[backseatjuan]

In 2014 I dated this chick, she was 17, wife material. It didn't work out because I was drinking, and the way she put it she knew plenty of men who didn't drink and didn't need it. So it's a plus that you don't drink, don't start, and stay away from people that do. Find a person that doesn't drink also, and you two will have plenty in common. Relax.

 

[AttackFormation]

Alcoholism is the result of drinking irresponsibly. Same with drunk driving and getting roofied at a party.

But if you're still set on not ever drinking then just light a joint. A lot of people, especially the bad babes, love to smoke.

What if you don't wanna smoke anything either. Start chewing pot leaves?

 

[Billtx49]

Club social blending
In a club setting, non alcohol beer works. Know a guy that drinks that.
Some type of water, seltzer, or plain soft drink on the rocks with lemon or lime in a drink glass blends in also.

 

[SeymourCake]

Alcoholism is the result of drinking irresponsibly. Same with drunk driving and getting roofied at a party.

But if you're still set on not ever drinking then just light a joint. A lot of people, especially the bad babes, love to smoke.

I used to smoke weed. I quit since October. I figure it was time to face reality, remain sober and become more clear minded.

Club social blending
In a club setting, non alcohol beer works. Know a guy that drinks that.
Some type of water, seltzer, or plain soft drink on the rocks with lemon or lime in a drink glass blends in also.

Maybe I'll look into this. Thanks.

 

[Trunks]

I'm not into drinking due to personal beliefs. I believe it poisons the mind and body. It's bad for your liver. Most broken homes comes from a result of alcoholism. It makes your mind unclear. Drunk drivers are self destructive to drivers around them, etc...

This is not a thread bashing people who drink alcohol, but I'm wondering if there are any people here who has had success with women without having the need to drink alcohol socially with them? I can't go to bars because I would look out of place. Where can I meet women socially in my circumstance?

You can still go to bars that have non-alcoholic drinks. Otherwise, coffee shops are good places to meet women.

 

[Billtx49]

Maybe I'll look into this. Thanks.

If you play it right in a bar setting, you can also be the sober guy that takes the tipsy girl home because she can't drive.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You not drinking should not have a negative effect on your social life or ability to meet women.

You can still go to bars. They have non-alcoholic beverages....

 

[SeymourCake]

You can still go to bars that have non-alcoholic drinks. Otherwise, coffee shops are good places to meet women.

Are women receptive to be approached in coffee shops like how they are in bars, or at they more reclusive?

 

[QuadDeuces]

I don't drink either, I drink sparkling water in bars.
Women usually come up to me asking me why I don't drink.
And they see me as a highly valueble man who has self respect, discipline and self control.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Are women receptive to be approached in coffee shops like how they are in bars, or at they more reclusive?

No. You're a stranger. Take a dance class, do speed dating, or meet women online.

I don't drink either, I drink sparkling water in bars.
Women usually come up to me asking me why I don't drink.
And they see me as a highly valueble man who has self respect, discipline and self control.

Yea ok. I run into a few of those types of women who try to tell me drinking is bad. It's usually a dead giveaway that someone in their family was negatively impacted by alcohol.

People are free to live their lives however they want, but why pass moral judgments on others?

 

[Billtx49]

Are women receptive to be approached in coffee shops like how they are in bars, or at they more reclusive?

As a general rule, women are more receptive and friendlier when under the influence in a bar. It's a better social setting.

 

[Trunks]

Are women receptive to be approached in coffee shops like how they are in bars, or at they more reclusive?

Your approach needs to be different, more socially attuned. The suggestion about dance classes, yoga, etc. is good.

 

[wifehunter]

Just get out! Chicks are everywhere!

 

[El Payaso]

You can also try using meetup.com.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

This is not a thread bashing people who drink alcohol, but I'm wondering if there are any people here who has had success with women without having the need to drink alcohol socially with them? I can't go to bars because I would look out of place

That's your own limitation. I don't drink and I've never felt uncomfortable in bars. Just order tonic water. If you don't worry, nobody else will.

 

[Reykhel]

It's a matter of being comfortable in your own skin and confident with who you are and what you're about....

If anyone has never gone out stone cold sober (i.e. just you and your energy) I would highly recommend a period of
abstinence as your very own social experiment.

It's a real good test of where your inner game is at.