"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not into drinking. What can I do?

KingBeef

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I'm not into drinking due to personal beliefs. I believe it poisons the mind and body. It's bad for your liver. Most broken homes comes from a result of alcoholism. It makes your mind unclear. Drunk drivers are self destructive to drivers around them, etc...

This is not a thread bashing people who drink alcohol, but I'm wondering if there are any people here who has had success with women without having the need to drink alcohol socially with them? I can't go to bars because I would look out of place. Where can I meet women socially in my circumstance?
I actually tried this in my mid twenties for about 6 months while I was in my peak physical condition and I'm thinking of trying it again until late June, just abstaining from alcohol.

You can drink at bars and not drink alcohol.... Oj, cranberry, pineapple, sprite, a mix of the two, tonic or coke.... some bartenders give away those drinks for free, others will charge you 2-3 dollars.... All they care is the tip, slip them a couple of dollars, they'll appreciate it. Just use lines like, "I just want to get started, I've been drinking, I need a break in between or what comes naturally to you or just honesty". At the end of the night for them is their tips that matters. No stigma involved, girls can't tell if you have a mixed drink in your hand or just juice... They should just care about you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RangerMIke

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I only drink red wine with dinner, and never drink at parties, I like to keep my head clear. I have a half a bottle of vodka in my house, but that is for guests, I never drink at home. When I'm at parties I drink tonic water or coke, that is all. You will do much better hitting on chicks when sober.
 
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