"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm not interested in women older than 25

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CMNILS87

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24-27 is the sweet spot for me. Have a career, decent looks, not at the wall, but knows not to be a slut
 

EyeBRollin

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How many women getting married at that age are going to last the course anyway?

Half of marriages end in divorce. Out of the other half that don't, half of them are in unhappy marriages. This is not even factoring in early marriage by people that young. It is also leaving out those that choose not to marry.
Most divorces (~70%) are the woman dumping the man. Let's be clear. If you're a DJ that chooses the right woman it shouldn't happen to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BeTheChange

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Going ok thus far. Narrowing my focus and getting more picky has actually massively helped my game.

I'm still gaming the same quantity of chicks as before but the quality (lookwise atleast) has SHOT UP.

I've arranged 4 dates for Friday 8pm. Virtually flakeproof. 25, 25, 21 and 21. All HB8s. All tinder.

I've noticed the typical 3 or 4 fluff messages followed by a request for drinks doesn't really work with younger girls. They probably see it as desperate and time is on their side - unlike the older gals. You actually have to chat, which I don't mind. It's not a major issue when you've got multiple conversations on the go. I normally talk about a number and ask for the date after a few days (even a week or more) of text exchange. Seems to be working. Probably something to do with the pyschology of sunk costs - if they've been chatting to you for a week it's a cost for them too.
 
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