"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not interested in women older than 25

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CMNILS87

CMNILS87

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24-27 is the sweet spot for me. Have a career, decent looks, not at the wall, but knows not to be a slut
 
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EyeBRollin

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deesade said:
How many women getting married at that age are going to last the course anyway?

Half of marriages end in divorce. Out of the other half that don't, half of them are in unhappy marriages. This is not even factoring in early marriage by people that young. It is also leaving out those that choose not to marry.
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Most divorces (~70%) are the woman dumping the man. Let's be clear. If you're a DJ that chooses the right woman it shouldn't happen to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BeTheChange

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Going ok thus far. Narrowing my focus and getting more picky has actually massively helped my game.

I'm still gaming the same quantity of chicks as before but the quality (lookwise atleast) has SHOT UP.

I've arranged 4 dates for Friday 8pm. Virtually flakeproof. 25, 25, 21 and 21. All HB8s. All tinder.

I've noticed the typical 3 or 4 fluff messages followed by a request for drinks doesn't really work with younger girls. They probably see it as desperate and time is on their side - unlike the older gals. You actually have to chat, which I don't mind. It's not a major issue when you've got multiple conversations on the go. I normally talk about a number and ask for the date after a few days (even a week or more) of text exchange. Seems to be working. Probably something to do with the pyschology of sunk costs - if they've been chatting to you for a week it's a cost for them too.
 
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