nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Alle_Gory said:And put on some weight. Dude at 135lbs you probably look like a bag of antlers.
LOL at both statements. thewarrior, you are NOT muscular. You are just incredibly toned because you have no fat on you. It's like the example of the stick thin guy boasting his "6 pack". You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny. Daunting isn't it, there's only one way to do it though, getting under the bar and get squatting!So, let let me get this straight...thin guys don't get as many women as bigger guys????? It's not like I'm bony with no muscle. I'm very muscular.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'll be 185lbs. Isn't that more than what I should be weigh at 5'10''?CaptainJ said:You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny.
At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.Kal0051 said:I'm kinda the same way, actually exactly the same, except I can grow facial hair (though I keep it shaved, habit from when I was a army officer) and I've drank more than 5 drinks (lol). But though I'm 25 ppl think I'm 17-19, which sucks sometimes. Like last week I went into a car dealer and they wouldn't give me the time of day because they didn't think I was serious. But whatever, you can still get girls looking young, just go for younger girls, works for me (though I prefer 18-19 year old girls anyways).
yeah, I eventually got some help, from a guy my age. It was just the older salesmen that didn't help me. Oh well, they missed out on the commission on a 40k car, lol.thewarrior said:At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tight fitting clothes. But clothes aren't going to make you look wedge, weightlifting will. And yes, you need atleast 50lbs of muscle on you, to lose the skinny look.thewarrior said:I appreciate all the tips.
Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?