"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not going to be bothered with women until I look "older".

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CaptainJ

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Alle_Gory said:
And put on some weight. Dude at 135lbs you probably look like a bag of antlers.
So, let let me get this straight...thin guys don't get as many women as bigger guys????? It's not like I'm bony with no muscle. I'm very muscular.
LOL at both statements. thewarrior, you are NOT muscular. You are just incredibly toned because you have no fat on you. It's like the example of the stick thin guy boasting his "6 pack". You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny. Daunting isn't it, there's only one way to do it though, getting under the bar and get squatting!

www.stronglifts.com

Everything you need to get big and strong is there. Follow the stronglifts 5x5 routine which can be found on the website. Also begin drinking a gallon of full fat milk a day. You don't necessarily need to rigorously control what you eat, it does not need to be complicated. You just need to eat ****loads. Eat lots of protein, fat and carbs (carbs mainly for pre and post workout).
 

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you need to bulk the **** up, plain and simple. you will feel like a new person once you do
 

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What ever happened to working on confidence and attributes women like? Instead of blaming **** on your looks. I look real young too the less I care about it and the more confidence and happiness I am getting the more girls like me. And we are lucky guys like us can get away with being much more direct and aggressive without girls getting scared (hell of a lot more fun for us). Plus it's awesome how it makes people more shoked when you are ballsy especially girls.(that'll make things easier) And also lift weights anyway. Another good thing girls LOVE the bady face muscular body combo.

I say do stronglifts.com 5x5 and do the djbc it's working great for me.
 

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Wah wah wah... Quit your *****ing. I have always looked very young, and I still pull hb's that are around my age. It's all about your personality and how you carry yourself. If you have the attitude of not getting any chicks because you look young, you won't get any...

Get your ass in the gym, and start lifting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thewarrior

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CaptainJ said:
You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny.
I'll be 185lbs. Isn't that more than what I should be weigh at 5'10''?
 

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Kal0051 said:
I'm kinda the same way, actually exactly the same, except I can grow facial hair (though I keep it shaved, habit from when I was a army officer) and I've drank more than 5 drinks (lol). But though I'm 25 ppl think I'm 17-19, which sucks sometimes. Like last week I went into a car dealer and they wouldn't give me the time of day because they didn't think I was serious. But whatever, you can still get girls looking young, just go for younger girls, works for me (though I prefer 18-19 year old girls anyways).
At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.
 

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Whats this at least I am not alone crap? WE just told you it's in your head and how to fix your imaginary problem . thread title should of gave it away your here to whine not get a solution.

Look first thing to do when you have something you want to change is blame your self. It's MY fault I didn't get girls in the past cuz I didn't have the balls but it'll be MY fault when I am getting everything I desire (I have already due to blaming myself for my situations gotten tons of goals achieved). Take responsibility for your failure then you will change it then you will take responsibility for your success. You always hear about not being too hard on yourself most people aren't hard enough on themselves they just want to coddle themselves and say it's not their fault that they are in the situation they are in which means they'll never change their situation.
 

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thewarrior said:
At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.
yeah, I eventually got some help, from a guy my age. It was just the older salesmen that didn't help me. Oh well, they missed out on the commission on a 40k car, lol.
 

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go to the health store & get some of the stuff the body builders eat to gain. then, wear clothing that makes you look bigger. experiment with a one or two day growth on your beard=so you have small stubble. maybe grow the sideburns longer. using a dull electric shaver leaves a small stubble. chase the 18-20 yr olds and also the milfs. change that insecure attitude and gain some confidence. start chasing women laddy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thewarrior

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I appreciate all the tips.

Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?
 

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thewarrior said:
I appreciate all the tips.

Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?
Tight fitting clothes. But clothes aren't going to make you look wedge, weightlifting will. And yes, you need atleast 50lbs of muscle on you, to lose the skinny look.
 
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