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Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alle_Gory said:And put on some weight. Dude at 135lbs you probably look like a bag of antlers.
LOL at both statements. thewarrior, you are NOT muscular. You are just incredibly toned because you have no fat on you. It's like the example of the stick thin guy boasting his "6 pack". You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny. Daunting isn't it, there's only one way to do it though, getting under the bar and get squatting!So, let let me get this straight...thin guys don't get as many women as bigger guys????? It's not like I'm bony with no muscle. I'm very muscular.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'll be 185lbs. Isn't that more than what I should be weigh at 5'10''?CaptainJ said:You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny.
At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.Kal0051 said:I'm kinda the same way, actually exactly the same, except I can grow facial hair (though I keep it shaved, habit from when I was a army officer) and I've drank more than 5 drinks (lol). But though I'm 25 ppl think I'm 17-19, which sucks sometimes. Like last week I went into a car dealer and they wouldn't give me the time of day because they didn't think I was serious. But whatever, you can still get girls looking young, just go for younger girls, works for me (though I prefer 18-19 year old girls anyways).
yeah, I eventually got some help, from a guy my age. It was just the older salesmen that didn't help me. Oh well, they missed out on the commission on a 40k car, lol.thewarrior said:At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tight fitting clothes. But clothes aren't going to make you look wedge, weightlifting will. And yes, you need atleast 50lbs of muscle on you, to lose the skinny look.thewarrior said:I appreciate all the tips.
Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?