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Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.worship said:Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Alle_Gory said:And put on some weight. Dude at 135lbs you probably look like a bag of antlers.
LOL at both statements. thewarrior, you are NOT muscular. You are just incredibly toned because you have no fat on you. It's like the example of the stick thin guy boasting his "6 pack". You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny. Daunting isn't it, there's only one way to do it though, getting under the bar and get squatting!So, let let me get this straight...thin guys don't get as many women as bigger guys????? It's not like I'm bony with no muscle. I'm very muscular.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'll be 185lbs. Isn't that more than what I should be weigh at 5'10''?CaptainJ said:You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny.
At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.Kal0051 said:I'm kinda the same way, actually exactly the same, except I can grow facial hair (though I keep it shaved, habit from when I was a army officer) and I've drank more than 5 drinks (lol). But though I'm 25 ppl think I'm 17-19, which sucks sometimes. Like last week I went into a car dealer and they wouldn't give me the time of day because they didn't think I was serious. But whatever, you can still get girls looking young, just go for younger girls, works for me (though I prefer 18-19 year old girls anyways).
yeah, I eventually got some help, from a guy my age. It was just the older salesmen that didn't help me. Oh well, they missed out on the commission on a 40k car, lol.thewarrior said:At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tight fitting clothes. But clothes aren't going to make you look wedge, weightlifting will. And yes, you need atleast 50lbs of muscle on you, to lose the skinny look.thewarrior said:I appreciate all the tips.
Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?