"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm no longer a virgin!!!

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An anal sex virgin, that is....

Broke out of that last night. I've never been much for it, never really been interested in it. Well I did it last night and it was absolutely glorious, basically you have no mess, but she didn't let me go to town on her though (I'd rather not hurt her). No risk of pregnancy, I'm fired up...

I love treating her like a dirty little slvt. It seems this makes our relationship (esp. sex) better than I ever expected. Sorry, I'm bored at work, wanting to brag a little and get it out of my system...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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haha I saw a porno where that happened....
 

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This brings me to another topic....one of my buddies tells me "How can you respect a girl that lets you fukk her in the ass?" I was like, WTF, did he really say that? What does it matter? She's not a hoe, but she's not an angel, neither am I, is that the way most guys look at it? I don't think so...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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speedo_meme

This brings me to another topic....one of my buddies tells me "How can you respect a girl that lets you fukk her in the ass?" I was like, WTF, did he really say that? What does it matter? She's not a hoe, but she's not an angel, neither am I, is that the way most guys look at it? I don't think so...

Some guys have very differing opinions about sex....mostly this is instilled in them at an early age....religion, parents, etc...

I go for porno and beyond personally but I also know guys that are like your friend....Hell I know guys that will never have a ONS with a girl talk about weird....
 

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
This brings me to another topic....one of my buddies tells me "How can you respect a girl that lets you fukk her in the ass?" I was like, WTF, did he really say that? What does it matter? She's not a hoe, but she's not an angel, neither am I, is that the way most guys look at it? I don't think so...
I know it's not something that all girl like to do, but I would be MORE inclined to want a relationship or whatever with a chick who is sexually open and likes to experiment. It's the ones who DENY their real desires that you have to watch out for!
 

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Originally posted by fuzzx
if a girl doesn't let me do what I want, then I don't trust her.
^^^ What a stupid comment, are you really 25?

Then the same should be said for you, she should stick a dildo up your butt or else she can't trust you.

Anyways, anal sex - dunno if I wanna try it. Maybe if she's into it or wants to try it out. Enema or deep cleaning at least, thanks.
 
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