“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So, I had a bunch of bs planned out for this summer but I ended up crashing my mountain bike and messing up a disk in my back. I felt pretty bad for awhile but then I decided to take up reading and set up some goals in improving myself.

I'm 19 and I've been a clueless BAFC until now. I went through depression and social anxiety... I climbed my way out of that **** but I'm still lacking in social skills.

I've made a ton of progress. I used to be scared to leave the house and now I'm perfectly comfortable in public and talking to people I know and clerks and stuff. I've even found myself flirting with some clerks. Only recently have I tried talking to strangers and it's difficult to say the least.

I'm going back to college on Monday so I figure I'd start Bootcamp today.

I've read a lot of stuff here and some of david deangelo's (sp?) stuff.

I know I'm capable of dropping this whole wussbag mentality but I also know it's not going to be easy. Specially considering all the flack I get from family and friends everytime I try to change myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I remember when I first started to read this sort of info when I was 17. You almost become ravenous for the knowledge.

Best of Luck :up:
 

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Read the DJ bible, practice, and learn to hold conversations without worrying about gaming or C&F first. Then, work on frame control and being C&F. Finally, begin to establish a "routine stack" of your own that you are congruent with. Do this and you will be further along than most.
 

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Week one of bootcamp started on Thursday.

I approached one girl and made an ass out of myself but who cares it was practice. I'm only up to 7 hi's and it's been 2 days. Eye contact isn't hard but getting myself to smile at strangers is a pain in the ass.

I go back to college Monday. I got to get laid before going back to school. I don't care how. I just gotta do it now or I know it's going to be 10x more difficult once school starts.

It's amazing how confidence can fluxuate. Sometimes I feel angry about my situation and I feel like I can take on anything and other times I feel like a huge wuss.
 
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