"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm new here... And a woman is that ok?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You Need to Gone with That Weak A$$ Sh*t

Tryingtofindmyself said:
By the way to some of the replies i am not made of elephant skin and perhaps you could consider that.
What hold on a minute? You come into a male dominated forum, frequented by dudes who have had anywhere from less than ideal or straight up f*cked up dealings with women, and you have the NERVE to come in here talking about about you can't handle the criticism, skepticism involving your story and to sugar coat sh*t, tell you how must of bad guy your ex was, and tell you, "That's alright baby," it will be okay." :down: F*ck out of here with that bullsh*t.

If you want are advice we're more than willing to give it you, but you're going to get the uncut raw, the unmitigated truth. If that's too much for you to handle, than I'd strongly suggest that you never come to this forum again and take your a$$ over to www.lipstickalley.com. Those entitlement havin' hoes will be move than happy to indulge you and your bullsh*t.


Tryingtofindmyself said:
I have been in a two year relationship, he told me at the start that he wanted to marry me and have kids. I gave up my job to relocate and move in with him. He changed his mind about both of these things.
That's on you, he changed the terms of the agreement, when he did so, you should have bounced.

Tryingtofindmyself said:
We argued he physically handled me. I forgave him. We argued he got very angry and handled me again.
Boo f*ckin' hoo. :cry: You let a dude beat on you. Who's fault is that? When he did it a second time, why did you call the police, press charges, and go home?

Tryingtofindmyself said:
I found out he was watching porn on a regular basis sneezing out of bed at night. He stopped having sex with me. He was actually asking very kind to me, he gave me money to buy food for the house as I went back to study to get a better job. He could be very sweet and kind and loyal, apart from porn. He did love me and I loved him. I still do. Now let the comments rip lol
:crackup: Hold up? Is ole Rex reading this correctly? Dude was sneaking out at night, but your issue is that he liked to watch booty movies? Really? Listen dear, you'll have better chance of finding a priest of doesn't have a thing for young boys, before you find a man who doesn't like booty movies.
 

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Tryingtofindmyself said:
I am a woman in her forties
This is your problem.

You are reading the forum but apparently it's not sinking in. We are not using psychology here, we are trying to teach men how to be men.
 
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