"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm new here... And a woman is that ok?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You Need to Gone with That Weak A$$ Sh*t

Tryingtofindmyself said:
By the way to some of the replies i am not made of elephant skin and perhaps you could consider that.
What hold on a minute? You come into a male dominated forum, frequented by dudes who have had anywhere from less than ideal or straight up f*cked up dealings with women, and you have the NERVE to come in here talking about about you can't handle the criticism, skepticism involving your story and to sugar coat sh*t, tell you how must of bad guy your ex was, and tell you, "That's alright baby," it will be okay." :down: F*ck out of here with that bullsh*t.

If you want are advice we're more than willing to give it you, but you're going to get the uncut raw, the unmitigated truth. If that's too much for you to handle, than I'd strongly suggest that you never come to this forum again and take your a$$ over to www.lipstickalley.com. Those entitlement havin' hoes will be move than happy to indulge you and your bullsh*t.


Tryingtofindmyself said:
I have been in a two year relationship, he told me at the start that he wanted to marry me and have kids. I gave up my job to relocate and move in with him. He changed his mind about both of these things.
That's on you, he changed the terms of the agreement, when he did so, you should have bounced.

Tryingtofindmyself said:
We argued he physically handled me. I forgave him. We argued he got very angry and handled me again.
Boo f*ckin' hoo. :cry: You let a dude beat on you. Who's fault is that? When he did it a second time, why did you call the police, press charges, and go home?

Tryingtofindmyself said:
I found out he was watching porn on a regular basis sneezing out of bed at night. He stopped having sex with me. He was actually asking very kind to me, he gave me money to buy food for the house as I went back to study to get a better job. He could be very sweet and kind and loyal, apart from porn. He did love me and I loved him. I still do. Now let the comments rip lol
:crackup: Hold up? Is ole Rex reading this correctly? Dude was sneaking out at night, but your issue is that he liked to watch booty movies? Really? Listen dear, you'll have better chance of finding a priest of doesn't have a thing for young boys, before you find a man who doesn't like booty movies.
 

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Tryingtofindmyself said:
I am a woman in her forties
This is your problem.

You are reading the forum but apparently it's not sinking in. We are not using psychology here, we are trying to teach men how to be men.
 
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