I'm new..and have a problem

[Kamikaze10223]

Hey guys..great site.been following for a while..and read the dj bible

Here's my situation:
there's this girl that my friend used to like..he's over her now..and they were friends for a few months..He gave me her screenname for aim

I know she's interested..she's been dropping hints..but i never followed up because i knew my friend wanted her at the time..

But now, idk how to start a conversation with her because she'll probably ask how i know her..or how i get her sn
though she does know i'm friends with the guy who gave me her sn

so i was thinking of saying i got it from him...but that might make me seem desperate...

my other idea was to say hi and ask if she was the girl checking me out allt he time..and i know she was..caught her looking back at me a few times after we passed by each other..

any ideas?
thanks

 

[BongDuy]

Personally, I would NOT aim her, because I think its a little weird that your friend gave you her aim, which was cool of him, but i dont think that'll help you much.

You're much better off seeing her in person, and just saying "hey, whats up?" and then starting from scratch, like getting her phone number, setting up dates, and getting to know her better.

EDIT: I just kind of re-read your post, and You don't know her well at all? Do you two know each other's names?

 

[eaglez1177]

Yea man you cant make the first time talking to her over a computer screen lol. You should always strive to talk to a girl as much as possible in person, as opposed to talking to her on the internet. Do not send her an im, but instead just go to her in person, and start talking like you've never met before. Start from scratch like BongDuy suggested.

I dont think shes gonna ask how you know her, cuz most people dont ask they when they meet someone for the first time. You prolly know her name, but she doesnt know yours im guessing? Just pretend you dont know what her name is. "Hey whats up im blah blah...whats your name?"

 

[Kamikaze10223]

those were my thoughts
the thing is...

i dont want to wait till school starts
hah
impatient i know..but i feel like i could be spending at least one day of this christmas break with her

 

[colombiandude]

I'd have to disagree with eaglez on saying that she probably does know youre name. if youve caught her looking back at you a few times already then shes probably very interested, which means shes probably asked her friends who you are or something. You could not introduce your name if you want to. lol. for the hell of it. Be like "Hey I've always see you around...blah blah, whats youre name? blah blah blah. Cool ill see you around." but like dont say youre name. Its your choice.