"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm new and confused (and my introduction)

Asteconn

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Hello Gents,

This is my frist pots! =D

But I'm mightily confused by the lingo that you use here.

"LJBF"?
"A 9"?
"AFC"?

Can someone enlighten me please?

Edit: Well - I thought I'd offer a proper introduction:

I'm an AFC. I'll make no pretences about being otherwise. Lost my V plates at 20, longest relationship of any substance being 3 months. I've even driven 150 miles to get stood up on Valentine's Day.

I downloaded 'the book of pook' from another (unrelated to this) forum - the guy said it had helped him tonnes. So I sat down and read it over the course of a week or so. Then I realised. OMFG! I'm one of these 'Nice Guys' that were derided so much.

So, the first thing I did after that - I got a Gym membership, and started going at least twice a week (going again later tonight) - to get into shape. I have some weights at home that I'm actually using now too. Hopefully as I get into better shape my confidence will improve to the level where I'm actually making some worthwhile moves on attractive young ladies and succeeding!
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey man, welcome to the forum,
LJBF stands for "Let's Just be Friends" and,
AFC for "Average Frustrated Chump"

Cheers
 

Asteconn

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Daniel1982 said:
Hey man, welcome to the forum,
LJBF stands for "Let's Just be Friends" and,
AFC for "Average Frustrated Chump"

Cheers
Thank you Daniel

Knowing what AFC means clarifies a lot!
 
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