"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm moving

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in a spare the moment move, I woke up this morning and basically said **** it, i'm getting out of arkansas. I dont' know what drove me to that decision but I am done here.

I am flying down to Venice, Florida tomorrow to look for a a townhouse/house, and I just might really say **** it and and rent a house/hotel until i get a place to stay...

I will be out within 2 weeks

Any wingmen around that area?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't plan to go until the end of next week and I am keeping my place down here and I fly free anyway
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i THOUGHT about moving out of arkasnas.. came dame close, just couldn't do it at the time.

I need to get away.

That's another thing I like about that area of flordia, horse tracks everywhere. I have to bet online now... I can't imagine what it's like to go to say, Calder on a Tuesday in the middle of november and it's 79 degrees outside.

once it's all said it done, it will be southern florida or southern Cal... the alure of Del Mar, Hollywood Park and Bay Meadows all right next to each other is hard to pass up, and I almost forgot Santa Anita.

I have a possible vested business interest in southern Florida.. I will see how it works out
 
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