"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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in a spare the moment move, I woke up this morning and basically said **** it, i'm getting out of arkansas. I dont' know what drove me to that decision but I am done here.

I am flying down to Venice, Florida tomorrow to look for a a townhouse/house, and I just might really say **** it and and rent a house/hotel until i get a place to stay...

I will be out within 2 weeks

Any wingmen around that area?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i don't plan to go until the end of next week and I am keeping my place down here and I fly free anyway
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i THOUGHT about moving out of arkasnas.. came dame close, just couldn't do it at the time.

I need to get away.

That's another thing I like about that area of flordia, horse tracks everywhere. I have to bet online now... I can't imagine what it's like to go to say, Calder on a Tuesday in the middle of november and it's 79 degrees outside.

once it's all said it done, it will be southern florida or southern Cal... the alure of Del Mar, Hollywood Park and Bay Meadows all right next to each other is hard to pass up, and I almost forgot Santa Anita.

I have a possible vested business interest in southern Florida.. I will see how it works out
 
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