She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You aren't thinking this correctly. Trust me, you can be a lot better then you are right now. You are pessimistic and haven't yet realized how great you can be. You got to change your diet first, then stop smoking cigarettes\marijuana if you are, don't drink booze, you got to bring your mood up too, start relaxing more, take yoga classes or watch comedy or something, if you do these things you will be able to sleep better at night and it's all uphill from there. Take some supplements if you must. Don't whack off more then once in a day, in your recovery time you can do it once a week until you start feeling better and when your body gets stronger (better attitude, happier, etc) you can do it more frequently, but come back slowly. Stop watching porn too (well, at least for now, but I am gonna stop for a long time).gspshields2 said: