"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im making my flirting and hitting on girls too obvious-advice?

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eaglez1177

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Hey all, whenever im around a girl I like, I always wind up making it so clear and obvious that im going for her. My friends always tell me that it hurts my game cuz it just becomes so obvious to everyone that im hitting on that girl. On top of this, it makes me seem kind of desperate to the girl cuz its just so obvious that im trying to get with her. What can I do to change this and make myself seem more mysterious?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about being direct one moment, but they another moment you appear indifferent to her. Like you suddenly forgot she existed, look away when you talk to her, etc. And then go direct again. This hot and cold technqiue will create a mystery of whether you are going for the girl or not. She will not be able to figure it out if you keep breaking rapport and will be even more attracted to you.
 
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Showing too much interest from the get-go WILL hurt your game. Bottom line.

You give a little, then take it. Make her hot, then act uninterested. Rinse, wash, dry, repeat.

Any questions?
 
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