Im making my flirting and hitting on girls too obvious-advice?

[eaglez1177]

Hey all, whenever im around a girl I like, I always wind up making it so clear and obvious that im going for her. My friends always tell me that it hurts my game cuz it just becomes so obvious to everyone that im hitting on that girl. On top of this, it makes me seem kind of desperate to the girl cuz its just so obvious that im trying to get with her. What can I do to change this and make myself seem more mysterious?

 

[CaptainJ]

How about being direct one moment, but they another moment you appear indifferent to her. Like you suddenly forgot she existed, look away when you talk to her, etc. And then go direct again. This hot and cold technqiue will create a mystery of whether you are going for the girl or not. She will not be able to figure it out if you keep breaking rapport and will be even more attracted to you.

 

[nismo-4]

Showing too much interest from the get-go WILL hurt your game. Bottom line.

You give a little, then take it. Make her hot, then act uninterested. Rinse, wash, dry, repeat.

Any questions?