Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Im making my flirting and hitting on girls too obvious-advice?

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eaglez1177

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Hey all, whenever im around a girl I like, I always wind up making it so clear and obvious that im going for her. My friends always tell me that it hurts my game cuz it just becomes so obvious to everyone that im hitting on that girl. On top of this, it makes me seem kind of desperate to the girl cuz its just so obvious that im trying to get with her. What can I do to change this and make myself seem more mysterious?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How about being direct one moment, but they another moment you appear indifferent to her. Like you suddenly forgot she existed, look away when you talk to her, etc. And then go direct again. This hot and cold technqiue will create a mystery of whether you are going for the girl or not. She will not be able to figure it out if you keep breaking rapport and will be even more attracted to you.
 
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Showing too much interest from the get-go WILL hurt your game. Bottom line.

You give a little, then take it. Make her hot, then act uninterested. Rinse, wash, dry, repeat.

Any questions?
 
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