"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm kinda bored w/ my gf

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DanjoZ

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I'm like in a mist right now. Normaly I could handle situations like this but I guess I need some pushing right now. I'm so awfully bored w/ my girl friend. I got no insperation at all. It was fun a couple month ago but now it's just plain boring.

We see each other 3-4 days a week. We do almost nothing fun. She is a horse chick so she rides 7 days a week and sometimes I go with her. Once in a while we go to the movies or maybe something else. But that's about it.

What do you guys suggest? I will die in this boooring relationship if you don't get me some insperation or advice =(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snobby

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You're a ****ing DJ, you don't need 'er. You can find other girls who will be willing to spend more quality time and do more fun stuff with you. Why the hell are you sticking with her? You deserve better, either do something to improve the situation or end the relationship immediately.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phat

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she must think your boring too.
 
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