"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm kinda bored w/ my gf

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DanjoZ

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I'm like in a mist right now. Normaly I could handle situations like this but I guess I need some pushing right now. I'm so awfully bored w/ my girl friend. I got no insperation at all. It was fun a couple month ago but now it's just plain boring.

We see each other 3-4 days a week. We do almost nothing fun. She is a horse chick so she rides 7 days a week and sometimes I go with her. Once in a while we go to the movies or maybe something else. But that's about it.

What do you guys suggest? I will die in this boooring relationship if you don't get me some insperation or advice =(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snobby

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You're a ****ing DJ, you don't need 'er. You can find other girls who will be willing to spend more quality time and do more fun stuff with you. Why the hell are you sticking with her? You deserve better, either do something to improve the situation or end the relationship immediately.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Phat

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she must think your boring too.
 
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