"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm just making sure this is a good way to plan a date

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Last time I was way to AFC: "if you aren't busy, wanna do something this weekend" :mad:

So tomorrow, I'm going to talk about how I called her and she was out with her family (her mom picked up). She'll probably say "yeah I was blah blah blah". I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Then I'll just talk about something else and make plans on thursday.

Sound good?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PinkFloyd said:
Last time I was way to AFC: "if you aren't busy, wanna do something this weekend" :mad:

So tomorrow, I'm going to talk about how I called her and she was out with her family (her mom picked up). She'll probably say "yeah I was blah blah blah". I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Then I'll just talk about something else and make plans on thursday.

Sound good?
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Theres only one way to find out... try it.
 
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Sounds good :)
 
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PinkFloyd said:
I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Sound good?
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Yes. Tell her what to do as well. BE IN CONTROL. I like the fact that you said "We'll do something on Friday." Drop the Just.
 
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