"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm just making sure this is a good way to plan a date

PinkFloyd

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Last time I was way to AFC: "if you aren't busy, wanna do something this weekend" :mad:

So tomorrow, I'm going to talk about how I called her and she was out with her family (her mom picked up). She'll probably say "yeah I was blah blah blah". I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Then I'll just talk about something else and make plans on thursday.

Sound good?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheNewGuy

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PinkFloyd said:
Last time I was way to AFC: "if you aren't busy, wanna do something this weekend" :mad:

So tomorrow, I'm going to talk about how I called her and she was out with her family (her mom picked up). She'll probably say "yeah I was blah blah blah". I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Then I'll just talk about something else and make plans on thursday.

Sound good?
Theres only one way to find out... try it.
 

PinkFloyd

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Sounds good :)
 

The Master Disaster

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PinkFloyd said:
I'll respond with "it's cool, we'll just do something on Friday".

Sound good?
Yes. Tell her what to do as well. BE IN CONTROL. I like the fact that you said "We'll do something on Friday." Drop the Just.
 
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