"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meh...what a fool I am for wasting so much energy, time and thought on a worthless DJ groupie *****...I am so pleased I have woken up and asked myself do you actually like this girl J?...and the answer was a firm NO!

Thanks for all your advice, I scored a date with a cute girl from the Computer School I go to today and feel pretty happy about that...we have been flirting with each other for ages soI asked her out in a joking way as well and was bieng a smart ass but she said yes ...so well...cross fingers. :)
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by penkitten
woohoo
see how easy that was?
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:) Yes and I had a cutie around here tonight and sadly she is too young but there is quite a lot of love for each other and we get on really well.

Thanks penkitten...sometimes you just need good advice and good friends to keep you on the level.
 
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Works like a charm!

Believe it or not, I had a small case of "oneitis" a couple weeks ago, after only a couple dates with a gal. Hey, a lifetime of AFC brainwashing is tough to get rid of! The wise sage Rollo Tomassi told me to ask out others. Got dates with others and presto! Oneitis gone.

Folks, it works like a charm.

Just say no to oneitis and AFCness!
 
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OMG is this the roomate guy??

Man, I just posted a reply to your other thread (it wasnt very nice ) and I just read this.

WOOT! Congrats on seeing the light.

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By the way good luck with the cutie from Comp School.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks man...yeah the date is tommorow and I am seeing another girl for coffee next week.:D
 
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