"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm just an idiot

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meh...what a fool I am for wasting so much energy, time and thought on a worthless DJ groupie *****...I am so pleased I have woken up and asked myself do you actually like this girl J?...and the answer was a firm NO!

Thanks for all your advice, I scored a date with a cute girl from the Computer School I go to today and feel pretty happy about that...we have been flirting with each other for ages soI asked her out in a joking way as well and was bieng a smart ass but she said yes ...so well...cross fingers. :)
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by penkitten
woohoo
see how easy that was?
:) Yes and I had a cutie around here tonight and sadly she is too young but there is quite a lot of love for each other and we get on really well.

Thanks penkitten...sometimes you just need good advice and good friends to keep you on the level.
 

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Works like a charm!

Believe it or not, I had a small case of "oneitis" a couple weeks ago, after only a couple dates with a gal. Hey, a lifetime of AFC brainwashing is tough to get rid of! The wise sage Rollo Tomassi told me to ask out others. Got dates with others and presto! Oneitis gone.

Folks, it works like a charm.

Just say no to oneitis and AFCness!
 

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OMG is this the roomate guy??

Man, I just posted a reply to your other thread (it wasnt very nice ) and I just read this.

WOOT! Congrats on seeing the light.

:up:

By the way good luck with the cutie from Comp School.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks man...yeah the date is tommorow and I am seeing another girl for coffee next week.:D
 
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