"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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meh...what a fool I am for wasting so much energy, time and thought on a worthless DJ groupie *****...I am so pleased I have woken up and asked myself do you actually like this girl J?...and the answer was a firm NO!

Thanks for all your advice, I scored a date with a cute girl from the Computer School I go to today and feel pretty happy about that...we have been flirting with each other for ages soI asked her out in a joking way as well and was bieng a smart ass but she said yes ...so well...cross fingers. :)
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by penkitten
woohoo
see how easy that was?
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:) Yes and I had a cutie around here tonight and sadly she is too young but there is quite a lot of love for each other and we get on really well.

Thanks penkitten...sometimes you just need good advice and good friends to keep you on the level.
 
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Works like a charm!

Believe it or not, I had a small case of "oneitis" a couple weeks ago, after only a couple dates with a gal. Hey, a lifetime of AFC brainwashing is tough to get rid of! The wise sage Rollo Tomassi told me to ask out others. Got dates with others and presto! Oneitis gone.

Folks, it works like a charm.

Just say no to oneitis and AFCness!
 
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OMG is this the roomate guy??

Man, I just posted a reply to your other thread (it wasnt very nice ) and I just read this.

WOOT! Congrats on seeing the light.

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By the way good luck with the cutie from Comp School.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks man...yeah the date is tommorow and I am seeing another girl for coffee next week.:D
 
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