"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm into This Girl's Friend But Don't Know Where Her Friend Is...

Dragoo

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Ok I have gone back to college after taking a few years off. Before my hiatus from college I saw this Hispanic girl that was everything I was looking for physically in a woman... When I saw her she was talking to another Hispanic girl... We were in a hallway and when I was passing them the girl I liked started to talk MUCH louder all of a sudden... Now mind you People say that I'm a pretty good looking guy all the time... So I think she was trying to get my attention... I was too shy though so I didn't stop to talk to her... That was the last time I saw her...

Now fast forward a couple of years to last week... Last week was the first day of classes for the semester... I go to sit down in one of my classes and in comes the girl she was talking to... When she saw me I guess u can say she looked kinda happy to see me... She sat down not right beside me but about three chairs over next to me... There was no one sitting in between us. Out of the corner of my eye I saw her staring at me a few times during the class..

My question is what do I do now? Should I ask her "do u know any other Hispanic business majors?" We're in the business school of my university. I really want to see her friend again.... she was a knockout.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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"Hey, what's up? My name's Dragoo. What's yours?"
It's not that hard.
How about this: you look at her if she looks at you and say the above with a smile.

Simple enough? Or are you gonna overcomplicate things?
 

Dragoo

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
"Hey, what's up? My name's Dragoo. What's yours?"
It's not that hard.
How about this: you look at her if she looks at you and say the above with a smile.

Simple enough? Or are you gonna overcomplicate things?
When should I ask if she know any other Hispanic business majors?
 
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