"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm into This Girl's Friend But Don't Know Where Her Friend Is...

Dragoo

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Ok I have gone back to college after taking a few years off. Before my hiatus from college I saw this Hispanic girl that was everything I was looking for physically in a woman... When I saw her she was talking to another Hispanic girl... We were in a hallway and when I was passing them the girl I liked started to talk MUCH louder all of a sudden... Now mind you People say that I'm a pretty good looking guy all the time... So I think she was trying to get my attention... I was too shy though so I didn't stop to talk to her... That was the last time I saw her...

Now fast forward a couple of years to last week... Last week was the first day of classes for the semester... I go to sit down in one of my classes and in comes the girl she was talking to... When she saw me I guess u can say she looked kinda happy to see me... She sat down not right beside me but about three chairs over next to me... There was no one sitting in between us. Out of the corner of my eye I saw her staring at me a few times during the class..

My question is what do I do now? Should I ask her "do u know any other Hispanic business majors?" We're in the business school of my university. I really want to see her friend again.... she was a knockout.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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"Hey, what's up? My name's Dragoo. What's yours?"
It's not that hard.
How about this: you look at her if she looks at you and say the above with a smile.

Simple enough? Or are you gonna overcomplicate things?
 

Dragoo

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
"Hey, what's up? My name's Dragoo. What's yours?"
It's not that hard.
How about this: you look at her if she looks at you and say the above with a smile.

Simple enough? Or are you gonna overcomplicate things?
When should I ask if she know any other Hispanic business majors?
 
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