"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm ****ing 0 for 2 for Prom dates

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The first chick already had a date and then the second girl flat out didnt want to go with me. I'm so sick of girl's bull **** excuses. It pisses me off.

Today my friend tried to hook me up with a chick. As she was walking towards me, I was like **** she's ugly. We get introduced to each other then, after 30 seconds, she asks me to go the prom. I'm like "you know what, i'm waiting to hear back from this girl i asked yesterday. she said she'd call me today. so i'll let you know tomorrow." i just completely pulled that out of my ass so i wouldnt have to go with her. she's just not my type. now i got to lie to her so i don't have to go with her. i mean what else could i do in that situation?

There's 2 weeks left before prom and i'm completely desperate. After she left, i went up to three chicks in a group and asked them to go the prom. the first one said her parents won't let her, the second one just said sorry, and the third one just stared at me. so i'm pretty ****ed right now. i guess asking random girls isnt as easy as it sounds.

what would you guys do if you were me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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undesputable

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well technically youre 0 for 5...just keep trying, dont look desperate tho...going up to a group of 3 girls and asking them to prom kinda seems a little desperate.
 

Mission

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You can't just randomly ask girls to go to prom with you, prom is a little bit different than your high school dances, its important to the girl and they want to go with someone memorable. It's not very serious here but, I got my prom date by saying to a girl who I am sort of friends with, (during conversation about grad) "hey listen, you want to be my arm candy date for grad?" she laughed her ass off and said sure. You have to be clever, and you have to have known the girl for more than 10 seconds if you want a hope in hell.
 

Dandrufman

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Last minuet is a bad thing

If push comes to shove, ask a junior or underclassman (preferably one you already know). Not only is it less likely that they already have a date, but it circumvents the whole memorable date thing. But dont do this unless you have to (or really want to).

Dont give up, but dont be without a backup plan either.
 

shydude

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Well sounds like someone is screwed........ Listen, you still have time to get to know a girl. Dont just walk up to the group and ask, instead ask a girl out, get to know her and then ask her to the prom. Good luck
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wavejams007

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I agree with dandrufman. YOu can always ask an underclassman. I suggest a junior though.

don't worry too much though, it doesn't matter that much. YOu can always ask your mom!:p
 

Fitch

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Yeah... you don't just walk up to girls and ask them to a prom. You look unbeleivably desperate in their eyes. And we know what a turn on that is for women.
 
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