"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm ****ing 0 for 2 for Prom dates

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The first chick already had a date and then the second girl flat out didnt want to go with me. I'm so sick of girl's bull **** excuses. It pisses me off.

Today my friend tried to hook me up with a chick. As she was walking towards me, I was like **** she's ugly. We get introduced to each other then, after 30 seconds, she asks me to go the prom. I'm like "you know what, i'm waiting to hear back from this girl i asked yesterday. she said she'd call me today. so i'll let you know tomorrow." i just completely pulled that out of my ass so i wouldnt have to go with her. she's just not my type. now i got to lie to her so i don't have to go with her. i mean what else could i do in that situation?

There's 2 weeks left before prom and i'm completely desperate. After she left, i went up to three chicks in a group and asked them to go the prom. the first one said her parents won't let her, the second one just said sorry, and the third one just stared at me. so i'm pretty ****ed right now. i guess asking random girls isnt as easy as it sounds.

what would you guys do if you were me?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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undesputable

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well technically youre 0 for 5...just keep trying, dont look desperate tho...going up to a group of 3 girls and asking them to prom kinda seems a little desperate.
 

Mission

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You can't just randomly ask girls to go to prom with you, prom is a little bit different than your high school dances, its important to the girl and they want to go with someone memorable. It's not very serious here but, I got my prom date by saying to a girl who I am sort of friends with, (during conversation about grad) "hey listen, you want to be my arm candy date for grad?" she laughed her ass off and said sure. You have to be clever, and you have to have known the girl for more than 10 seconds if you want a hope in hell.
 

Dandrufman

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Last minuet is a bad thing

If push comes to shove, ask a junior or underclassman (preferably one you already know). Not only is it less likely that they already have a date, but it circumvents the whole memorable date thing. But dont do this unless you have to (or really want to).

Dont give up, but dont be without a backup plan either.
 

shydude

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Well sounds like someone is screwed........ Listen, you still have time to get to know a girl. Dont just walk up to the group and ask, instead ask a girl out, get to know her and then ask her to the prom. Good luck
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wavejams007

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I agree with dandrufman. YOu can always ask an underclassman. I suggest a junior though.

don't worry too much though, it doesn't matter that much. YOu can always ask your mom!:p
 

Fitch

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Yeah... you don't just walk up to girls and ask them to a prom. You look unbeleivably desperate in their eyes. And we know what a turn on that is for women.
 
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