"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im in sh1t need opinions on where to go from here

playa99

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ok so there was a party on friday and i was very drunk, so was my gf, my mate gave me a condom and we were goin to have sex, but we didnt, for a number of reasons, then yesterday i was going to meet her but i was late and she went in a mood over that, we made up, but then she was being really quiet and just being really off with me, finally she usually walks home with me but she didn't she got a lift home off her dad, another sign of discontent i guess?? anyone got any advice what to do now?? thanks in advance
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

playa99

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pleaseee could some-one give me an opinion i know doing this is against the rules of the forum but im desparate ive been in tears today
 

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I don't really understand what happened. Sounds like she's drifting away from you. I don't really know what to tell her. Show her the guy she first met? Other thing is don't try to contact her much. Give her a call, leave a message, and let her call back. Play video games, work out, but don't keep calling.
 

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edited to be make the situation more understandable
 
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