"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im in sh1t need opinions on where to go from here

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ok so there was a party on friday and i was very drunk, so was my gf, my mate gave me a condom and we were goin to have sex, but we didnt, for a number of reasons, then yesterday i was going to meet her but i was late and she went in a mood over that, we made up, but then she was being really quiet and just being really off with me, finally she usually walks home with me but she didn't she got a lift home off her dad, another sign of discontent i guess?? anyone got any advice what to do now?? thanks in advance
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pleaseee could some-one give me an opinion i know doing this is against the rules of the forum but im desparate ive been in tears today
 
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I don't really understand what happened. Sounds like she's drifting away from you. I don't really know what to tell her. Show her the guy she first met? Other thing is don't try to contact her much. Give her a call, leave a message, and let her call back. Play video games, work out, but don't keep calling.
 
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edited to be make the situation more understandable
 
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