"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im in quite a dilema!

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Okay theres this girl i've been talking to and I really like her, but one day we all went to the library wit her friend to pick classes for next semester. Her friemd looks good but I wasn't really thinking about her like that. I remember her(the friend) saying she had a man. So the other day i call her and ask her if she'd write my paper and somehow it turns into a 3hr convo and I was like damn! Then the next day we talk for a long ass time and she starts asking me if I was single and about my past relationships. She texts me all the damn time while my target hasn't texted me in like 4 days. I called her earlier and she aint pick up and when I was on myspace it says shes online. As Im looking at her comments her friend is talking about how she cant find my page. To make things worse she said she wants to come to my room on wed. and I have class with my target girl that same day. I really don't want to mess things up with the girl I like.

PS. they are best friends and the girl i likes friend was talking about she wants to leave her man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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obviously her friens likes u. i would give her a chance, give the game to whoever asks first, that's how i play it. if ur target doesnt move fast enough, that's her fault. maybe hooking up with her friend will make her jealous and want u more.
 

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Ok so today she comes to my dorm room and she says she wants to "sleep" with me. All we did was lie in bed and talk for like 35 min. I was facing her back so her ass was touching my ****. She said she ain't wanna cheat on her man.

Should I just be straight with her and tell her that I wanna be with her friend. I don't feel like leading her on. Plus she said to call her later. Should I?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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  1. Chose the woman who you are interested in that has shown a definite interest in you.
  2. Put the other woman into the LJBF zone (men can do it too y'know).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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later today i tell her how i felt about the whole situation and she tells me how just b/c we were in bed 2gether didn't mean i was gonna smash. so tell her i don't wanna wait on the sidelines while she is still wit her man. then she tells me i should i should be more direct so i ask her wassup wit 2morrow and she says she dont wanna move fast and how she still likes her man so im like ok and we hangup. 1hr later she tells me she was really feelin me and i dont reply b/c i felt da situation was getting worse then all of a sudden she asks me if my offer was still good to smash.
I dont want 2 do her now b/c she acting all desperate and i will feel mad guilty. should i tell her i don't want to talk to her anymore
 

Cod3r

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You just fvcked up my friend... it's official... u've got a c0ckblock


If you pull the main girl, let me know i'll be surpised


-Cod3r
 

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i know and when i was talking to the main girl she picks up her phone and is setting up a date wit some other dude so im like fvck. what da f should I do? i really just want out of this predicament.
 

Cod3r

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NEXT... don't waste your time on damage control...

Not worth the effort bro, fvck these broads... period


-Cod3r
 
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and1play5 said:
...she says she wants to "sleep" with me.... I was facing her back so her ass was touching my ****. She said she ain't wanna cheat on her man.
Haha, this is some funny shiat!! Use your imagination for a few seconds and read the above quote...she doesn't want to cheat on her man??? And then she proceeds to say that she wants to sleep with you and she props her buttocks onto your scrotum!!!!!! HUH???

Stupid hor -- no, she is a giga-hor!!! Never lie in a bed with a woman unless you are there to do some damage!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never lie in a bed with a woman unless you are there to do some damage!!![/QUOTE]

Speaks the truth if I were you i would just bang her friend its not like shes going
to tell anyone she dont want to look like a h@.
 
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