"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im in quite a dilema!

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Okay theres this girl i've been talking to and I really like her, but one day we all went to the library wit her friend to pick classes for next semester. Her friemd looks good but I wasn't really thinking about her like that. I remember her(the friend) saying she had a man. So the other day i call her and ask her if she'd write my paper and somehow it turns into a 3hr convo and I was like damn! Then the next day we talk for a long ass time and she starts asking me if I was single and about my past relationships. She texts me all the damn time while my target hasn't texted me in like 4 days. I called her earlier and she aint pick up and when I was on myspace it says shes online. As Im looking at her comments her friend is talking about how she cant find my page. To make things worse she said she wants to come to my room on wed. and I have class with my target girl that same day. I really don't want to mess things up with the girl I like.

PS. they are best friends and the girl i likes friend was talking about she wants to leave her man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Raikojo17

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obviously her friens likes u. i would give her a chance, give the game to whoever asks first, that's how i play it. if ur target doesnt move fast enough, that's her fault. maybe hooking up with her friend will make her jealous and want u more.
 

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Ok so today she comes to my dorm room and she says she wants to "sleep" with me. All we did was lie in bed and talk for like 35 min. I was facing her back so her ass was touching my ****. She said she ain't wanna cheat on her man.

Should I just be straight with her and tell her that I wanna be with her friend. I don't feel like leading her on. Plus she said to call her later. Should I?
 

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  1. Chose the woman who you are interested in that has shown a definite interest in you.
  2. Put the other woman into the LJBF zone (men can do it too y'know).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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later today i tell her how i felt about the whole situation and she tells me how just b/c we were in bed 2gether didn't mean i was gonna smash. so tell her i don't wanna wait on the sidelines while she is still wit her man. then she tells me i should i should be more direct so i ask her wassup wit 2morrow and she says she dont wanna move fast and how she still likes her man so im like ok and we hangup. 1hr later she tells me she was really feelin me and i dont reply b/c i felt da situation was getting worse then all of a sudden she asks me if my offer was still good to smash.
I dont want 2 do her now b/c she acting all desperate and i will feel mad guilty. should i tell her i don't want to talk to her anymore
 

Cod3r

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You just fvcked up my friend... it's official... u've got a c0ckblock


If you pull the main girl, let me know i'll be surpised


-Cod3r
 

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i know and when i was talking to the main girl she picks up her phone and is setting up a date wit some other dude so im like fvck. what da f should I do? i really just want out of this predicament.
 

Cod3r

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NEXT... don't waste your time on damage control...

Not worth the effort bro, fvck these broads... period


-Cod3r
 
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and1play5 said:
...she says she wants to "sleep" with me.... I was facing her back so her ass was touching my ****. She said she ain't wanna cheat on her man.
Haha, this is some funny shiat!! Use your imagination for a few seconds and read the above quote...she doesn't want to cheat on her man??? And then she proceeds to say that she wants to sleep with you and she props her buttocks onto your scrotum!!!!!! HUH???

Stupid hor -- no, she is a giga-hor!!! Never lie in a bed with a woman unless you are there to do some damage!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TONYMONTANA523

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Never lie in a bed with a woman unless you are there to do some damage!!![/QUOTE]

Speaks the truth if I were you i would just bang her friend its not like shes going
to tell anyone she dont want to look like a h@.
 
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