I'm in love with a girl that has a boyfriend.

[Johnsmith]

There is this girl i have been in love with for nearly 4 years amd i cant stop thinking about her every second of everyday i know she is the one. I dont find any other girl attractive i only have eyes for her and would do anything for her.

We are very close we text each other every single day and can talk for hours and whenever we do she makes me so happy and i think she does like me But she has a boyfriend who she has been with a year and they always argue they never go a week without arguing but they always somehow make up.

He treats her like sh*t and it breaks my heart seeing her sad as she deserves much better. I can never get to sleep as i am always thinking about her and become depressed as she has a boyfriend and i just want to look after her and let her show her i love her.

She knows i like her but not that i love her this much and i just dont know what to do as i feel i will never get over this girl as she is truly the one for me.

 

[Tiguere]

Dj Bible... Go Read It.

 

[cfdagola]

i'm curious for scientific purposes what would happen if you just all the sudden went no contact on this chick.

I mean she may legit confess her feelings if you guys have truly talked non stop everyday for 4 years.

inquiring minds would like to know.

 

[thunderbolt]

i feel your pain dude. but ask yourself if you really believe you can have this girl...the answer is you dont. otherwise you would be showing her your affection. man up and lay it on her.

 

[foreverAFC]

you are the shoulder to cry on after the guy she is actually fcking makes her sad, you are filling the role of the gay friend who she discusses her relationship problems with

 

[bcolon]

These topics lately have been really soft. What the Hell is going on?! This is sickening.

Your in love with a girl that's already taken? Out of all the girls in the world. You just have to have one that's in a relationship with someone else?

*facepalm*

 

[expos]

Assuming this is not the world's lamest troll....

If you were to tell her your feelings towards her, one of two things will happen..

1. She dumps the guy and goes out with you. You will be a temporary boyfriend until she becomes obsessed with someone more manly than you and then you are out of luck again...or work yourself into beta orbiter status. Then, you'll come back here crying and will be forced to taking the red pill.

2. She get's extremely uncomfortable when you tell her your feelings and you lose a friendship and a sexual relationship.

 

[Thorninmyside]

There are 3 billion+ other women. Start ruling them out one at a time now.

Hear me now, believe me later: this girl is just another one.

 

[jimmy18]

The OP is the equivalent of a begger on the street asking strangers for $1.

Even if we could give him the $1 he craves and needs RIGHT NOW, we can instead do something that is exponentially better for his long-term growth: teach him (metaphorically) how to make $1 million.

He can start by reading the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook

 

[Tictac]

I was thinkin' this guy came to exactly the wrong place for 'advice'.