Hello,
Im in a very tricky situation. I have met a woman through mutal friends about 2-3 months ago. I met her out on a club because my friend knew her and i immediately felt a very strong attraction and connection with her. Since then we have been seeing each other almost every weekend among other friends but we have also been hanging out alone. For example we have been going to sports games, went out to dinner and had movie nights.
When we have been going out on clubs, she has been sitting in my lap and we have been kind of cuddly, also been holding hands many times. We have also been talking a lot of how we feel that we like each others company and make each other stronger, something I haven´t ever felt before.
One night when we were drinking some wine at her place in her bathtub i asked if I can move in with her, to wich she said "yes I would like that, it will be fun" I wasn´t really expecting her to be so direct with her answer but the next day i put my apartment out for rent and im now in the process of renting it out and move in with her. We both want this and have obvisosuly talked about it when sober as well.
Last night she invited me over to make some dinner and watch some movies, wich we did. We lay real close to each so our heads touched but we didn´t kiss or have sex. Eventually we both fell asleep and when she woke up she said she was going to the bed and said that I can sleep either in the guest room, stay on the sofa or in her bedroom. Since I don´t want to make anything weird and make assumptions I stayed on the sofa.
The thing is, I don´t know exactly what she feels for me, if she feels for me? Am I a loveblind fool to be doing this or should I listen to my heart and move in with her?
Im in a very tricky situation. I have met a woman through mutal friends about 2-3 months ago. I met her out on a club because my friend knew her and i immediately felt a very strong attraction and connection with her. Since then we have been seeing each other almost every weekend among other friends but we have also been hanging out alone. For example we have been going to sports games, went out to dinner and had movie nights.
When we have been going out on clubs, she has been sitting in my lap and we have been kind of cuddly, also been holding hands many times. We have also been talking a lot of how we feel that we like each others company and make each other stronger, something I haven´t ever felt before.
One night when we were drinking some wine at her place in her bathtub i asked if I can move in with her, to wich she said "yes I would like that, it will be fun" I wasn´t really expecting her to be so direct with her answer but the next day i put my apartment out for rent and im now in the process of renting it out and move in with her. We both want this and have obvisosuly talked about it when sober as well.
Last night she invited me over to make some dinner and watch some movies, wich we did. We lay real close to each so our heads touched but we didn´t kiss or have sex. Eventually we both fell asleep and when she woke up she said she was going to the bed and said that I can sleep either in the guest room, stay on the sofa or in her bedroom. Since I don´t want to make anything weird and make assumptions I stayed on the sofa.
The thing is, I don´t know exactly what she feels for me, if she feels for me? Am I a loveblind fool to be doing this or should I listen to my heart and move in with her?
