"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in kind of a slump. Please help.

crossboss

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I would never say I was a 10/10 with girls, or a 9/10. But, at least I had some game. Now, girls that used to be interested in me have lost interest. What is going on?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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Thanks.

You are right, I kind just care too much. Who's cares what they think, I can just move on. Their loss.
 

crossboss

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Well....

Since I actually care about what you think I will pay you $10,000 and I will also kiss your feet each time I see you. Thanks, though. Just kidding.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You gotta be more specific, man. Maybe you've had these girls on the backburner too long and they lost interest in you (I've made the same mistake before.) Maybe they have bfs. Maybe your game is rusty like mine. Try new places, new girls, new approaches. We gotta get out of that slump ASAP or we'll keep sinking.
 

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I also think I was trying

To live up to their standards. Instead it should be my standards. I remember, I never used to try and live up to their standards. By the way what is your problem? Maybe we could both, help each other out? P.M. me.
 
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