"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm in kind of a slump. Please help.

crossboss

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I would never say I was a 10/10 with girls, or a 9/10. But, at least I had some game. Now, girls that used to be interested in me have lost interest. What is going on?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks.

You are right, I kind just care too much. Who's cares what they think, I can just move on. Their loss.
 

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Well....

Since I actually care about what you think I will pay you $10,000 and I will also kiss your feet each time I see you. Thanks, though. Just kidding.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You gotta be more specific, man. Maybe you've had these girls on the backburner too long and they lost interest in you (I've made the same mistake before.) Maybe they have bfs. Maybe your game is rusty like mine. Try new places, new girls, new approaches. We gotta get out of that slump ASAP or we'll keep sinking.
 

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I also think I was trying

To live up to their standards. Instead it should be my standards. I remember, I never used to try and live up to their standards. By the way what is your problem? Maybe we could both, help each other out? P.M. me.
 
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