"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Buck Naked

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I know people are going to be pissed for me asking this, but im always wrong and i need others opinions.
Theres this girl (Trisha) in my writing class. We've exchanged glances a few times b4 in class, but nothing big. She always sits next to her friend in class, no surprise. On Wednesday there was a spot open next to me and another dude. Trisha took the seat between me and the dude leaving her friend high and dry. She mentioned something to her friend about her keyboard being sticky and i looked up and we both looked at each other and laughed. I later talked to her, had another laugh together. B4 i left i said, have a nice weekend. She said, you too. I just smiled at her and walked off. Wanna leave some mystery.
To me, because she left her best friend with no spot next to her (Trisha), that it is a good sign. But ive been burned by assuming the wrong idea many times b4. Am i wrong to assume that Trisha is interested?

~JD~
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let good ol' Silq answer this one for ya'.

No. Don't do it.

Man, you guys realize that overanalyzing is a damn female attribute, right? I think it's time some of you go hunting and shoot some animals, drink its blood and eat its meat and wear the hide as a trophy.

((Trisha)) is most likely just being friendly.

If you're serious about it then go get her number and set something up, otherwise...
 

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The fact that she left her friend, whom she always sat by b4. No girl would ever leave her friend without some kind of other motive. There were plenty of places where they could have sat next to each other. My gut feeling is that Trisha likes me.
 

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Originally posted by Buck Naked
The fact that she left her friend, whom she always sat by b4. No girl would ever leave her friend without some kind of other motive. There were plenty of places where they could have sat next to each other. My gut feeling is that Trisha likes me.
My gut feeling is that you're taking random events and trying to interpret them so they benefit you. If your horoscope that day said, "New love interests are everywhere", you probably would've taken this as a sign that they were right.

In summary: Could mean something, could mean nothing. I'll believe she's interested when you get her phone number. ;)
 

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Don't overanalyze but it's atleast a GOOD incident and not a negative one so try to get her nr or build some rapport with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FreeStyleZ

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So let me get this straight.. u think she likes u because she sat next to u... had ONE laugh with u where u didint even say anything really..... and then you guys told each other to have a nice weekend? Man ive had girls flirt with me at parties, dance with me.. then give me their number and i still found out they werent interested.
 

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PUSSAAYY!

Don't listen to these turkies, man. She talked to you, she's obviously not repulsed by you. It's college, she wants to ****, so go for it! Be clever, read the forums, don't be a dumbass.
 

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thanks superchristx, i think. The point i was trying to make was that she always sat by her friend b4, this time she sat next to me leaving her friend high and dry. Women normally dont leave their friends without some kind of other motive. And amybe it was the way she looked at me when we talked. Either way, next class will determine how she feels. If she sits by me agains, im money, if not, it was just a coincidence she sat by me
 
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