"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in grave danger how can I tell her?

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Situation with girl: We arent in a relationship but I want to give her another chance & I was being unfair (I texted I didnt want to see her anymore) as we were just textng each other. She seems like she wants another chance (body language). We dont see each other often.

Story: Last week Bob accidentally threw paint at my boss's 700 dollar jacket. Sam told on him and Bob was punished and embarrased in front of everyone. Bob cussed at us and looked threatening. Personally I didnt say anything but I am scared because of recent school shootings. It didnt help when my coworkers mentioned shootings. This is a true story; I added fake names.

back to real life: I want to use this story as a chance to give the girl a chance. I mean I might never see her again if I do get shot. How can I make this story good? By this I mean not whiny, too overdramatic, etc. So should I just say hey I was being unfair to you and I might never see you again, run my story, then run my comfort game? I already have her attracted. The only kink in this is getting her isolated....

Basically: How can I make this story good? Should I just say I might never see you again, story, comfort game? How can I get her isolated?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zack77766 said:
Situation with girl: We arent in a relationship but I want to give her another chance & I was being unfair (I texted I didnt want to see her anymore) as we were just textng each other. She seems like she wants another chance (body language). We dont see each other often.

Story: Last week Bob accidentally threw paint at my boss's 700 dollar jacket. Sam told on him and Bob was punished and embarrased in front of everyone. Bob cussed at us and looked threatening. Personally I didnt say anything but I am scared because of recent school shootings. It didnt help when my coworkers mentioned shootings. This is a true story; I added fake names.

back to real life: I want to use this story as a chance to give the girl a chance. I mean I might never see her again if I do get shot. How can I make this story good? By this I mean not whiny, too overdramatic, etc. So should I just say hey I was being unfair to you and I might never see you again, run my story, then run my comfort game? I already have her attracted. The only kink in this is getting her isolated....

Basically: How can I make this story good? Should I just say I might never see you again, story, comfort game? How can I get her isolated?
LMAO!!!!

You're kidding, right?

This ain't the movies, kiddo... if you've been threatened by a coworker, I think you should be callin the cops and not spewing some lame assed glory story to a chick, in hopes of getting some action.

This is damn funny stuff, right here... especially the "I may not see you again" bit... melodramatic much?
 

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And, BTW, I think you need to relax and stop watching the news/ believing all the hype about shootings and such. It's not like every person who gets in trouble or has it rough is gonna turn into a killer.

Just live and stop being afraid of sh!t you can't control.

Wanna get with the girl?

Ask her out. If she's vibin' she'll accept, and then there's no need for the silly movie scenario
 

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You're focusing too much on this possible movie scenario. I'm guessing you're still in high school. It's really lame when someone gets into a normal conversation and then starts talking about... "and I think someone's going to bring a gun to school tomorrow, I'm so scared, hold me!"

It's good to appear vulnerable, but you have to be high-value first before the vulnerability is endearing. The only appropriate time to talk about this is if both of you are sharing some intensely emotional moment by pure chance, like you both just saw someone die or something. If you talk about this dramatic situation under any other circumstance, it would be some pretty pathetic report-seeking behavior.

If she's interested in you, she may not care though. Is this girl an HB6 or an HB9? HB6s love it when guys become easily vulnerable to them, so they can sink their clingy claws in them.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
And, BTW, I think you need to relax and stop watching the news/ believing all the hype about shootings and such. It's not like every person who gets in trouble or has it rough is gonna turn into a killer.

Just live and stop being afraid of sh!t you can't control.

Wanna get with the girl?

Ask her out. If she's vibin' she'll accept, and then there's no need for the silly movie scenario
my mom doesn't let me go to Von Maur anymore after the shooting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian said:
my mom doesn't let me go to Von Maur anymore after the shooting.
Don't get me wrong, I feel that these are serious incidents worthy of much concern, but I just think that we can't go day to day feeling threatened by the possibility.... And, in this case I think his cause for concern is unfounded. He's trying to get with a chick by making up a life or death scenario to woo her. If it was really a likely scenario, he'd be more worried for his life and macking a chick would be the last thing on his mind.


Haven't you heard George Carlin say, "Survival is more important than fvcking" ?
 

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I think its pretty pathetic to try use school shootings to get sympathy to get some action but to each his own.
 
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