Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm in grave danger how can I tell her?

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Situation with girl: We arent in a relationship but I want to give her another chance & I was being unfair (I texted I didnt want to see her anymore) as we were just textng each other. She seems like she wants another chance (body language). We dont see each other often.

Story: Last week Bob accidentally threw paint at my boss's 700 dollar jacket. Sam told on him and Bob was punished and embarrased in front of everyone. Bob cussed at us and looked threatening. Personally I didnt say anything but I am scared because of recent school shootings. It didnt help when my coworkers mentioned shootings. This is a true story; I added fake names.

back to real life: I want to use this story as a chance to give the girl a chance. I mean I might never see her again if I do get shot. How can I make this story good? By this I mean not whiny, too overdramatic, etc. So should I just say hey I was being unfair to you and I might never see you again, run my story, then run my comfort game? I already have her attracted. The only kink in this is getting her isolated....

Basically: How can I make this story good? Should I just say I might never see you again, story, comfort game? How can I get her isolated?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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zack77766 said:
Situation with girl: We arent in a relationship but I want to give her another chance & I was being unfair (I texted I didnt want to see her anymore) as we were just textng each other. She seems like she wants another chance (body language). We dont see each other often.

Story: Last week Bob accidentally threw paint at my boss's 700 dollar jacket. Sam told on him and Bob was punished and embarrased in front of everyone. Bob cussed at us and looked threatening. Personally I didnt say anything but I am scared because of recent school shootings. It didnt help when my coworkers mentioned shootings. This is a true story; I added fake names.

back to real life: I want to use this story as a chance to give the girl a chance. I mean I might never see her again if I do get shot. How can I make this story good? By this I mean not whiny, too overdramatic, etc. So should I just say hey I was being unfair to you and I might never see you again, run my story, then run my comfort game? I already have her attracted. The only kink in this is getting her isolated....

Basically: How can I make this story good? Should I just say I might never see you again, story, comfort game? How can I get her isolated?
LMAO!!!!

You're kidding, right?

This ain't the movies, kiddo... if you've been threatened by a coworker, I think you should be callin the cops and not spewing some lame assed glory story to a chick, in hopes of getting some action.

This is damn funny stuff, right here... especially the "I may not see you again" bit... melodramatic much?
 

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And, BTW, I think you need to relax and stop watching the news/ believing all the hype about shootings and such. It's not like every person who gets in trouble or has it rough is gonna turn into a killer.

Just live and stop being afraid of sh!t you can't control.

Wanna get with the girl?

Ask her out. If she's vibin' she'll accept, and then there's no need for the silly movie scenario
 

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You're focusing too much on this possible movie scenario. I'm guessing you're still in high school. It's really lame when someone gets into a normal conversation and then starts talking about... "and I think someone's going to bring a gun to school tomorrow, I'm so scared, hold me!"

It's good to appear vulnerable, but you have to be high-value first before the vulnerability is endearing. The only appropriate time to talk about this is if both of you are sharing some intensely emotional moment by pure chance, like you both just saw someone die or something. If you talk about this dramatic situation under any other circumstance, it would be some pretty pathetic report-seeking behavior.

If she's interested in you, she may not care though. Is this girl an HB6 or an HB9? HB6s love it when guys become easily vulnerable to them, so they can sink their clingy claws in them.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
And, BTW, I think you need to relax and stop watching the news/ believing all the hype about shootings and such. It's not like every person who gets in trouble or has it rough is gonna turn into a killer.

Just live and stop being afraid of sh!t you can't control.

Wanna get with the girl?

Ask her out. If she's vibin' she'll accept, and then there's no need for the silly movie scenario
my mom doesn't let me go to Von Maur anymore after the shooting.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crazy Asian said:
my mom doesn't let me go to Von Maur anymore after the shooting.
Don't get me wrong, I feel that these are serious incidents worthy of much concern, but I just think that we can't go day to day feeling threatened by the possibility.... And, in this case I think his cause for concern is unfounded. He's trying to get with a chick by making up a life or death scenario to woo her. If it was really a likely scenario, he'd be more worried for his life and macking a chick would be the last thing on his mind.


Haven't you heard George Carlin say, "Survival is more important than fvcking" ?
 

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I think its pretty pathetic to try use school shootings to get sympathy to get some action but to each his own.
 
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