"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im In Fort Lauderdale

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But stuck with nothing but old people. Im not here with anybody my age which makes it tough to meet any girls or do anything

Im by myself where ever I go. The sad thing is that I see a bunch of hot chicks everyday here lol Lot's of young people naturally(spring Break) all in clicks and such lol and im getting frustrated

Two smoking hot blondes( 21-24 yrs old im guessing) Just a few doors down from me staying in the same building.....They cross paths with me a few times but didnt seem friendly lol and im sure they think im weird for being by myself everytime they see me lol which isnt much since they are at the beach all day and the bar all night like everybody else

I wish I was one of those types of people who can make small talk and friends easily on the fly. This is just so frustrating...being down here without a wingman/friends is like being in a 5 star steak house and you have everything but a fork lol

I came down visit family for those wondering...My two cousins who are my age said they would be here..Going on day 5 without them lol They won't be showing up( *******s) I don't know what happened

Im frustrated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know what you mean. I live in FL too it sucks. Too many old people period. If you want to get into a younger scene go up to Gainesville.
 

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Tons of girls in lauderdale I just dont have any friends with me to hit on them lol I dont wanna be the weird guy by himself hitting on chicks

Chicks see you by yourself all the time and think loser lol You are toast before you even say a word

social proof is beyond important imo. Nothing like walking into a bar with 4 or 5 good friends..You are fearless knowing you have backup..You shake off the rejection from girls when you have some pals who will buy you a beer lol you dont care nearly as much

when by yourself the rejection hurts more lol And I just feel weird
 

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Connor99 said:
This is just so frustrating...being down here without a wingman/friends is like being in a 5 star steak house and you have everything but a fork lol
If you don't have a fork for your steak use your hands.

Go to the beach and the clubs. Everybody will be so drunk and wrapped up in themselves they aren't going to be thinking about how you're alone. And if they do ask about friends, just say they are around here somewhere (works great in a crowded club).
 

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Hit up the wing board. Post for some wings in the Ft. Laudy area.

Pvssy everywhere this time of year, son. Go get it.

If you were hungry, would you wait for your friends before you went to get a bite? Hells no, you would go for some food and that's that. Don't let lack of a wing slow you down. Look at it this way, you can make a fool of yourself and no one will ever know. When will you EVER see these girls / people again? Hit the bars, hit the clubs. The later the night, the better your chances of banging a hot little spring breaker. Don't get discouraged and go home at midnight, leave the house at midnight.

Good Luck man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hit Las Olas up full force tonight and tomorrow night. Pregame with some dinner and a few beers to loosen up a little, then at eleven or twelve, head down to the bars. Do you need me to recommend some spots that you would be interested in? If so, let me know.
 

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I met some asian girl(pretty hot) we talked at the club a lot..This place had girls dancing on the tables is the shotest skirts u could imagine without anything underneath lol some were getting dollar tips lol others were just sluts so it seemed
The asian girl(non table dancer lol) gave me a kiss when the bar closed at 4am lol yes lauderdale has a club that stays open that late. She told me to come back to the bar tonight..I did get a good vibe from her

I asked her to come back to place(condo) gave her the room #..she kinda dodged the question but looked happy i asked

Im close...I just cant CLOSE the deal
 

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:confused: It sounds like you're on vacation... keep your **** in your pants for a week? If 5 days has you on edge, I'd suggest re-evaluating your life.
 

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It sounds like you're on vacation... keep your **** in your pants for a week? If 5 days has you on edge, I'd suggest re-evaluating your life.

I don't know what you mean by this lol sorry

whats the difference if you're on vacation, visiting family, down in south florida on business etc...who cares...Im HERE and it's spring break

Why should'nt I talk to girls and see whats around ? I just wish I had some of my boys with me..it would be a blast...I don't have much game when by myself..and hate walking around streets im not sure about

Im still having fun though and have met 3 girls now...Just cant't get them alone lol
 

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I mean, you sound desperate as if you were going to have to spend your life there with no hopes of ever getting laid again. Stop stressing out about having to get girls in bed and just try more to have fun. If it happens it happens. What's the worst result? You don't get laid for a week or two...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I mean, you sound desperate

This forum was created for picking up girls right ? So its kind of hard not to come across desperate when looking for tips and spots to hang out and meet girls

IMO every guy on here looks desperate...lol kind of hard not to..it's the nature of the forum
 

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What's the worst result? You don't get laid for a week or two...

It's spring break...who doesn't want a piece of ass on spring break ? Girls are everywhere here from all over the globe lol The trouble is im not prepared....I didnt come down here for spring break...and I have no friends nor wingman with me

Im not beating myself up over not getting laid..im just looking for advice...Good bars, places to meet girls...etc things I could say since im by myself.
 
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