"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im In Fort Lauderdale

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But stuck with nothing but old people. Im not here with anybody my age which makes it tough to meet any girls or do anything

Im by myself where ever I go. The sad thing is that I see a bunch of hot chicks everyday here lol Lot's of young people naturally(spring Break) all in clicks and such lol and im getting frustrated

Two smoking hot blondes( 21-24 yrs old im guessing) Just a few doors down from me staying in the same building.....They cross paths with me a few times but didnt seem friendly lol and im sure they think im weird for being by myself everytime they see me lol which isnt much since they are at the beach all day and the bar all night like everybody else

I wish I was one of those types of people who can make small talk and friends easily on the fly. This is just so frustrating...being down here without a wingman/friends is like being in a 5 star steak house and you have everything but a fork lol

I came down visit family for those wondering...My two cousins who are my age said they would be here..Going on day 5 without them lol They won't be showing up( *******s) I don't know what happened

Im frustrated
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Waking Up

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I know what you mean. I live in FL too it sucks. Too many old people period. If you want to get into a younger scene go up to Gainesville.
 

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Tons of girls in lauderdale I just dont have any friends with me to hit on them lol I dont wanna be the weird guy by himself hitting on chicks

Chicks see you by yourself all the time and think loser lol You are toast before you even say a word

social proof is beyond important imo. Nothing like walking into a bar with 4 or 5 good friends..You are fearless knowing you have backup..You shake off the rejection from girls when you have some pals who will buy you a beer lol you dont care nearly as much

when by yourself the rejection hurts more lol And I just feel weird
 

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Connor99 said:
This is just so frustrating...being down here without a wingman/friends is like being in a 5 star steak house and you have everything but a fork lol
If you don't have a fork for your steak use your hands.

Go to the beach and the clubs. Everybody will be so drunk and wrapped up in themselves they aren't going to be thinking about how you're alone. And if they do ask about friends, just say they are around here somewhere (works great in a crowded club).
 

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Hit up the wing board. Post for some wings in the Ft. Laudy area.

Pvssy everywhere this time of year, son. Go get it.

If you were hungry, would you wait for your friends before you went to get a bite? Hells no, you would go for some food and that's that. Don't let lack of a wing slow you down. Look at it this way, you can make a fool of yourself and no one will ever know. When will you EVER see these girls / people again? Hit the bars, hit the clubs. The later the night, the better your chances of banging a hot little spring breaker. Don't get discouraged and go home at midnight, leave the house at midnight.

Good Luck man.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hit Las Olas up full force tonight and tomorrow night. Pregame with some dinner and a few beers to loosen up a little, then at eleven or twelve, head down to the bars. Do you need me to recommend some spots that you would be interested in? If so, let me know.
 

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I met some asian girl(pretty hot) we talked at the club a lot..This place had girls dancing on the tables is the shotest skirts u could imagine without anything underneath lol some were getting dollar tips lol others were just sluts so it seemed
The asian girl(non table dancer lol) gave me a kiss when the bar closed at 4am lol yes lauderdale has a club that stays open that late. She told me to come back to the bar tonight..I did get a good vibe from her

I asked her to come back to place(condo) gave her the room #..she kinda dodged the question but looked happy i asked

Im close...I just cant CLOSE the deal
 

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:confused: It sounds like you're on vacation... keep your **** in your pants for a week? If 5 days has you on edge, I'd suggest re-evaluating your life.
 

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It sounds like you're on vacation... keep your **** in your pants for a week? If 5 days has you on edge, I'd suggest re-evaluating your life.

I don't know what you mean by this lol sorry

whats the difference if you're on vacation, visiting family, down in south florida on business etc...who cares...Im HERE and it's spring break

Why should'nt I talk to girls and see whats around ? I just wish I had some of my boys with me..it would be a blast...I don't have much game when by myself..and hate walking around streets im not sure about

Im still having fun though and have met 3 girls now...Just cant't get them alone lol
 

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I mean, you sound desperate as if you were going to have to spend your life there with no hopes of ever getting laid again. Stop stressing out about having to get girls in bed and just try more to have fun. If it happens it happens. What's the worst result? You don't get laid for a week or two...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean, you sound desperate

This forum was created for picking up girls right ? So its kind of hard not to come across desperate when looking for tips and spots to hang out and meet girls

IMO every guy on here looks desperate...lol kind of hard not to..it's the nature of the forum
 

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What's the worst result? You don't get laid for a week or two...

It's spring break...who doesn't want a piece of ass on spring break ? Girls are everywhere here from all over the globe lol The trouble is im not prepared....I didnt come down here for spring break...and I have no friends nor wingman with me

Im not beating myself up over not getting laid..im just looking for advice...Good bars, places to meet girls...etc things I could say since im by myself.
 
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