"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im in europe and found HB who wants it bad!!

unamean

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So I'm visiting some of my family in Romania and my cousins introduced me to a friend of hers who is really hott!!! Her name is Laura Anyway we've been out together as a group a couple of times this past week and my cousin told me that she wants to F**K an American!!! So last night Laura, her Friend and I go out to a nice lounge/club to have some drinks. As we're hanging out her friend reveals that she works for a internet porn company as a video chat girl!!!! The whole night all these girls talk about is sex, bj's, and more sex. At this point Laura is giving me all the classic IOI's, eye contact, fingers through the hair, LOTS of kino etc. I'm playing it cool the whole time, just relaxing sipping on my drink. We leave and she drives my cousin and I back to the house. At which point I go in for the goodnight kiss and she puts her tongue down my throat!! I told her that I would call her tommorow and arrange to go out to lunch.
The dilemma: I know this girl is a bad girl. I know she is older than me and has had lots of expierence. Me on the other hand have very minimal experience, and it will def show. I know that she will talk to her friend and my cousins about it and I dont know what to do... Do I go ahead and bang this girl tommorow, or do I try to find some other girl who has no ties with my cousins?? Help!!!!! I just dont want to look like a chump in front of my family who i've only met once in my life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if you don't bang her, then there will be no doubt in your cousins eyes that you are a chump...seriously, who cares what she would say, the last thing you want to happen is going back to the US and regretting passing up pvssy
 

Cinamon

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Tell her you like to be dominated by women and let her take the lead and you follow. That way, your lack of experience may appear as submissiveness and she may not pick up on it.
 

LyteOrchestra

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ya cinamon, you're a f*ckin genius... unless you of course realize that 99% of women are hugely turned off by submissive males.

be a man, dominate, and get your **** done, that means banging her
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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worship

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DON'T listen to Cinamon, LOL.

LyteOrchestra has the right idea.
 

Son of anarchy

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Tell her that you like to be dominated from women?? LOL
The next suggestion what is gonna be? to invite her in an expensive place,talk her about your family and ask about her and buy some flowers,and be sure to avoid flirting or touch...you know its bad! ahahahahahaha
 

Cinamon

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worship said:
DON'T listen to Cinamon, LOL.

LyteOrchestra has the right idea.
Hey listen, I am a woman, and I think there is something sexy about a man confident enough to let a woman dominate him. Any excuse to pull out the PVC cat suit with a tail that doubles up as a whip.... purrh!!!!
 

Son of anarchy

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Cinamon said:
Hey listen, I am a woman, and I think there is something sexy about a man confident enough to let a woman dominate him. Any excuse to pull out the PVC cat suit with a tail that doubles up as a whip.... purrh!!!!
Oh well if you are a woman so everything change!
My auntie told me many times that she as women like men who buy her flowers,never touch or kiss her without asking and of course give her attentions everytime everywhere.
It's strange that my auntie always sleep with men who dont do anything of that while avoid/take advantage/have fun with friends about men who do.
Do we have to believe to words or to facts? :whistle:
 

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Bad Cinamon! Go back in your corner and wait for your spanking.

Unamean,

Don't worry what the girl thinks. You want her, she wants you. In fact she wants you bad. Has there been anything you've wanted to try with a girl, that you haven't done before. If so, go for it.

I think us guys overthink this crap. Boy likes girl, Girl likes boy. F*ck like rabbits. Follow nature, your inner self, and the basic, primal programming in your genes and f*ck the girl.

There's a lot of advice, proceduce, and tequnique that gets passed around here. This is simple. Escalate (check) Isolate and Sex. Just get her alone somewhere and do whatever you want. Do what you want.

Nerves can be a serious problem in this type of scenario, and its what you are feeling. I recommend alcohol in a moderate amount. You should know how much it takes to get you a little relaxed without being drunk or sloppy. So have a drink or 2 at lunch, whatever it takes to chill out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So you got a certified HB that wants you to bang her brains out and the 1st thing you do is log onto the internet, to ask if you should ???? :confused:
 

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are you even a man????? just pound that püssy!!!!!! this certifies it in my mind, every buddy of mine that goes to romania has the same kind of experience. thats my next stop
 

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There's something messed up when a girl is all over you and you turn that **** down.

Sometimes I wonder if there's any hope
 

DJDamage

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unamean said:
I know she is older than me and has had lots of expierence. Me on the other hand have very minimal experience, and it will def show.
How does one gain experiences? by having experiences!

You are just visiting right?! so even if the sex turns out lousy, who cares?! you gained an experience and had a good time.

Just make sure you wrap it up!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Confident enough to be submissive? What type of logic is that? If you're confident you don't want to be submissive ..... anti-logic
 

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Let me point something out. Your cousin said this girl "wants to fvck an American" which means more than likely she never has. This should take pressure off you for two reasones: 1. She's fufilling a fantasy, so odds are she is going to be into it. 2. She doesn't know what an American fvcks like. So if she is really disappointed afterwards you just chalk it up to cultural differences and say something to the effect of "girls can't get enough of this back home".

Only thing to watch out for, most Europeans can drink us under the table. Its a fact. Moderate your consumption of alchohol the night of, lest the melty man comes for a visit.
 

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You'll be kicking yourself if you don't do it. Your cousin is indirectly trying to hook you up. This hot girl is being handed to you on a silver platter. There is nothing more to think about. Just give her the hot Yankee action she craves.
 
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